Please don't take this too seriously.

[N35t0r]

And how much good has that mental health philosophy done you?.

How the **** would you know? He did manage to have a functional relationship with a girl while you still treated them as 'females', so he certainly had an advantage over you in that regard.

There is no reason to coddle you and lie to you. You need direct intervention immediately.

Again, how the **** would you know? We're not 'coddling' him. We just have a bit more empathy, and know that acting all holier than thou over an internet forum isn't of much use.

[N35t0r]

lol, x-post.

Lori being level-headed

[Bereta_Eder]

yeah alby, by the same reasoning you need direct pvssy one could argue

(of course, don't we all)

[Al B. Sure!]

You are actually praising him? Did you read his posts about demons and if we knew what he is we would not be sympathetic? Do we need to spell it out for you? He needs help before he acts on his impulses. Maybe I am wrong to be so cold but I cannot coddle someone like that and give him support to not get treatment.

[Bereta_Eder]

Deamons is an ephemism for problems and thoughts that are "hunting you"

boooo *scary voice*
it's not real demons.

[Al B. Sure!]

When his demons hurt others you won't be so callous.

[N35t0r]

You are actually praising him?

Um, no. it's not binary, however. it's not either criticize or praise.

Did you read his posts about demons and if we knew what he is we would not be sympathetic? Do we need to spell it out for you?

en.wikipedia.com/wiki/metaphor

Also, we? So far, you're the only one who somehow thinks he's about to kill people.

He needs help before he acts on his impulses. Maybe I am wrong to be so cold but I cannot coddle someone like that and give him support to not get treatment.

Dude, he is getting treatment. Also, the fact that he has even talked about the existance of this third issue is a good thing IMHO.

[Lorizael]

You are actually praising him? Did you read his posts about demons and if we knew what he is we would not be sympathetic? Do we need to spell it out for you? He needs help before he acts on his impulses. Maybe I am wrong to be so cold but I cannot coddle someone like that and give him support to not get treatment.

No one here is suggesting I not get treatment, if you'll notice. But here's the thing--you don't know what I actually need treatment for. It's not just that you don't know what my "demons" are, but that you don't know if the real problem is my reaction to my demons. If you've paid any attention to this thread, you should understand that I overreact to my own thoughts and feelings a lot, and that this is one of my bigger problems. Your behavior only encourages me to continue to overreact. I believe that if others knew what I actually thought, they would not be sympathetic, but it's also possible that they would laugh and say, "Lori, everybody thinks like that." And if that's the case, then I do need help; I need help with how I respond to my thoughts.

[Lorizael]

When his demons hurt others you won't be so callous.

My original post about this issue was not in any sense prompted by thoughts of violence.

[Al B. Sure!]

Nobody will laugh off paedophilia!

[N35t0r]

Oooh! Let's list things that are serious with no evidence whatsoever!

I'll go second!

Serial rapist!

[N35t0r]

(also, we call ben a pedophile all the time)

[Bereta_Eder]

britney spears fan!

[self biased]

Dude, why do you have such a shame boner for Lori? You are being the precise opposite of helpful.

[Lorizael]

Nobody will laugh off paedophilia!

My original post about this issue was not in any sense prompted by thoughts of non-consensual sex.