There could be other dynamics in play, such as the new BF feels threatened by Lori and engineered this situation and stamp 'ownership'?
Or
She still wants Lori and is showing him what she's missing and hopes he'll fight for her - or is turned on by the prospect of him catching them?
Or
They fancied a threesome...
Given the situation: being allowed access to the apartment, knowing you generally turn up early, allows them to create a situation that only Lori will happen across - I find it really difficult to imagine that it was an accident...
The real question is: what were the real motives behind this 'accident'...? After all, Lori was the one who ended it and cast his ex aside, if you will...
Also, apart from obvious issues of emotional self-preservation, I don't really see why this friendship should necessarily be avoided? If it were me, I imagine I'd view it from a stance of amused detachment. Why cut off your gaming group because of some perceived pettiness from the other party - especially if you're playing into their (definitely his and maybe hers) hands if you do?
You left her, so unless you've changed your mind and want her back, then it's simply not your problem - apart from the fact that currently you're not getting any and they are. If you have changed your mind, then your simply being in the picture and her friend is usually an issue to the new boyfriend - especially because he knows you broke off with her and she still wants to be your friend - any guy that's even a bit emotionally crippled will likely have a massive problem with that at some point...
I simply don't understand the can't be friends afterwards thing tbh, if both of you are cool with it, why not...
Or
She still wants Lori and is showing him what she's missing and hopes he'll fight for her - or is turned on by the prospect of him catching them?
Or
They fancied a threesome...
Given the situation: being allowed access to the apartment, knowing you generally turn up early, allows them to create a situation that only Lori will happen across - I find it really difficult to imagine that it was an accident...
The real question is: what were the real motives behind this 'accident'...? After all, Lori was the one who ended it and cast his ex aside, if you will...
Also, apart from obvious issues of emotional self-preservation, I don't really see why this friendship should necessarily be avoided? If it were me, I imagine I'd view it from a stance of amused detachment. Why cut off your gaming group because of some perceived pettiness from the other party - especially if you're playing into their (definitely his and maybe hers) hands if you do?
You left her, so unless you've changed your mind and want her back, then it's simply not your problem - apart from the fact that currently you're not getting any and they are. If you have changed your mind, then your simply being in the picture and her friend is usually an issue to the new boyfriend - especially because he knows you broke off with her and she still wants to be your friend - any guy that's even a bit emotionally crippled will likely have a massive problem with that at some point...
I simply don't understand the can't be friends afterwards thing tbh, if both of you are cool with it, why not...
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