Please don't take this too seriously.

[notyoueither]

I thought CBT was crushed ball torture. This fit with Mobius since he is a sadomasochist.

C0ck and ball torture I think. Ball busting is sort of a different, and dangerous school...

Talked to an old friend of mine last night for about 2 hours. That was good. She thinks I need to try something new, anything new.

You might actully look into kink. I observe that many people with difficult histories and problems drift into and around it. There's something there for them that helps them get through the days and nights.

[Lorizael]

Heh. Way to unintentionally bring up a sore spot (pun intended?!) from my last relationship.

[notyoueither]

I wanted to make the cbt joke, but found pchang beat me to it. Harr harr

Was it a she wanted to and you didn't, or you did and she didn't or something else?

[Lorizael]

Leaning toward the former, but I should really have some boundaries on Poly.

[notyoueither]

I'd imagine 50 Shades of Grey has made a lot of husbands and boyfriends nervous.

[Sava]

This thread has taken an unexpected turn.

[Lorizael]

I'd imagine 50 Shades of Grey has made a lot of husbands and boyfriends nervous.

My ex and I are members of a writing group. We look upon 50 Shades with disdain.

[notyoueither]

This thread has taken an unexpected turn.

Trying to provide new keywords for the search engines.

[notyoueither]

My ex and I are members of a writing group. We look upon 50 Shades with disdain.

Try getting published, then be critical.

[notyoueither]

I am curious though, haven't read it. What do you look down your nose on?

[Lorizael]

It's sloppily written and poorly edited. And it is--literally--a fanfic of Twilight with the supernatural elements removed.

[Lorizael]

Clearly it still managed to strike a chord with your ex, no?

No. That book had no effect on her already well developed interest in kink.

And what's wrong with a bit of sadomasochism between consenting adults anyway...?

Absolutely nothing. But there's a lot wrong with me.

[Lorizael]

Try getting published, then be critical.

My ex has been published. I'm trying.

[notyoueither]

What I said sounds harsher than I meant it.

Hope you find success with that soon. Maybe try sci-fi fanfic without the space ships...

[Lorizael]

Well, I've got one story (that's already been rejected twice) out on submission and another in the works (and plenty on my various back burners).