Please don't take this too seriously.

[Lorizael]

My success rate with starting a relationship after several months of friendship is 100%.

[Colonâ„¢]

You should write an article about it, because a lot of people believe you have to be the Houdini of dating to pull that off.

[Bereta_Eder]

The majority (not to say the vast majority) of people I know got into relationships after only one or two weeks of knowing a girl.

Not saying that the other monthly thing doesn't happen but is is far less often and it could be even better (but how can you on earth last being with a girl as friends for months if that's not what you want? Unless it is)

[Lorizael]

Well... it could be argued that my success rate is only 75%, depending on whether or not one thinks I ever actively pursued the EBF. Additionally, that 100% success rate comes out to 3/3 over a span of 13 years, so I'm somewhat lacking in the data department.

[Bereta_Eder]

Well it is 100% and it's better than mine (although I may have a bit more data)
And probably getting to know the other person before going plunging in is better.

But that's not how it works, usually. Although if what you do fits you, keep doing it, there's no right way.

If you want to get laid though (I thought the issue was a vegina defficiency) that's a bit of a cumbersome way to go about it.

[Lorizael]

It's true. I am suffering from vagina deficiency. That's why I take porn supplements.

[Colonâ„¢]

The majority (not to say the vast majority) of people I know got into relationships after only one or two weeks of knowing a girl.

It's not because most of our age are too impatient to take it slow that being friends forms some sort of impenetrable barrier to sex.

[Bereta_Eder]

I'm not saying that getting to know the other in a platonic way is not wonderfully romantic, I just question the utility of this dragging on for months and months.

And yes, I do believe that at a certain point of time the girl is fully entitled to tell you to butt off if this continues.

[Ben Kenobi]

Not saying that the other monthly thing doesn't happen but is is far less often and it could be even better (but how can you on earth last being with a girl as friends for months if that's not what you want? Unless it is)

Think this is rather dumb and silly, but whatever. I've learned a lot from this statement and have dealt with it accordingly. I used to wait. Now I don't and I make my intentions clear.

[Bereta_Eder]

Well that's an odd statement. But I can't say I'm surprised.
Your twisted mind has probably "figured out" something completely offensive, but as I said, not surprised.

[Ben Kenobi]

Well that's an odd statement. But I can't say I'm surprised.

I think it's retarded to decide within a month whether someone is someone you want to get to know better. Sure, you might be attractive, but you might also really suck as a person. I'd like to find that out before I take you on a date.

Your twisted mind has probably "figured out" something completely offensive, but as I said, not surprised.

What twisted mind? It's the rules y'all are playing by. I thought most played by my rules and not what you stated there, which is actually totally accurate. And retarded, fwiw.

[Bereta_Eder]

I have no idea what "y'all" and rules means.

But so you understand, being on a friendship status with a girl you're romantically interested in for months and months is not something I'd contemplate doing and I'd leave. If others stay is their decision.

But what you thought was probably far more sinister than that and that's why I say that your mind is twisted.

As for the rest of your post, laughable.

[Ben Kenobi]

But so you understand, being on a friendship status with a girl you're romantically interested in for months and months is not something I'd contemplate doing and I'd leave. If others stay is their decision.

But what you thought was probably far more sinister than that and that's why I say that your mind is twisted.

What's sinister about the idea that most make up their minds within a month of first meeting the person? Retarded, sure, but sinister, no. What you said was a revelation to me years ago.

[Bereta_Eder]

whatever

[Lorizael]

Is BK agreeing with me? Ugh. I may have to change my opinion...