Does anyone know anything about a repressed libido?

[Jaguar]

Originally posted by Ted Striker
The JR. PLAYA speaks

Listen to Jag, he has all sorts of hoes in different area codes, it's like going to Baskin Robbins, he has so many hoes he can't decide so he gets a sample of each with the sample stick before ordering the double scoop.


Seriously though that's good advice.

I'm still figuring things out for myself, and I don't really have enough success to back what I say up, but Striker's endorsement is good enough for me.

[Ted Striker]

Originally posted by Mrs. Tuberski
I agree with ted. Even if you dont find instant cure you will have unloaded a life long fill of stuff inside your heart. To be able to love someone you must be able to love your self. To be able to speak with someone you must be able to speak out loud and not to yourself. Dont sell your self short John. You have the power to decide what you want in your life and Dont ever settle for less then your willing to accept

[Ben Kenobi]

On all counts BK, we'd be surprised if your story was any different . Perhaps, once you have been taken advantage of on a cold, lonely, drunken night by a beautiful 18 year old, you'll understand what we've been trying to tell you for years; that sex isn't a bad thing

Uh, you think I'm waiting because I think sex is bad?

[Ben Kenobi]

But normally speaking you should find at least some people who are mindful of that if you tell them.

No worries there. I've met many very kind folks who manage to put up with me, that I'm very thankful for.

[Ted Striker]

EDITED FOR ADULT CONTENT: Language, adult situations

[aneeshm]

One piece of advice - get rejected . Simply put , try go get rejected at least ten or fifteen times . That way , the fear of rejection is gone forever . Then it'll all be automatic .

And I almost forgot - eye contact .Always , always , always maintain eye contact with people you like .

[joncha]

The ladies must love you...

[Az]

MUST MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT.


Btw, yes, I fully support what Jag said. aneeshm is actually pretty right, too.

[joncha]

Azazel and aneeshm, out on the town.

[Az]

WHAT IS LOVE LALALALALALA

[joncha]

[Sikander]

Originally posted by Ted Striker
John,

HOnestly, you need to go talk to a counselor.

You have ALOT on your mind and need to get it out. Medication is just going to cover up what's going on.

The fact that you don't enjoy ANYTHING tells me you are depressed.

Please, go speak with a couneslor. At the very least, you'll get all this bottled stuff out to a pro.

Often times people are 100% fine, it's just the way they look at themselves. They probably have a silly way of looking at themselves, and become their own worst enemy.

A good couneselor can help identify this unfair idea about yourself and help you reframe and remove it.

There is probably something going on that you are not even aware of. In fact, I GUARANTEE something is going on.

Yea, I agree completely. I would also add that depression has about 10% fatality rate, the sort of thing that people would normally rush to the hospital about.

[SpencerH]

Yeah, if you're serious about all this, then seek professional counseling. This isnt normal nerdhood.

[Ecthy]

This is like the ten thousandth girl advice thread ever in this OT. No geek has ever been cured on this place.

[Dis]

Originally posted by Ecthy
This is like the ten thousandth girl advice thread ever in this OT. No geek has ever been cured on this place.

so true. You guys still haven't gotten me a girlfriend.