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[Bugs ****ing Bunny]

Originally posted by Mrs. Tuberski

ahh i see this is where it becomes a witch hunt when it happens to you.

Nope. You missed the point. It becames a bug-hunt when you have your kid asking you for help, or when you actually have evidence.

That's real evidence- not an assumption that any adult male communicating with a juvenile is a paedophile.

And there isn't just the one way to bring up kids correctly.

[Mrs. Tuberski]

Being strict on your kids is going to make them less safe.

So is not being strict if u let them run wild and do what they want you are inviting danger into their lives.

[Bugs ****ing Bunny]

Originally posted by Frankychan

2) You're not abusing the girl. I'm not talking about beating the crap out of the girl. Just a few smacks on the bottom.

Can't speak for anyone else, but I don't hit my kids. There isn't just one way to bring kids up correctly.

[Whaleboy]

Circular logic

[Mrs. Tuberski]

Originally posted by Lazarus and the Gimp


Nope. You missed the point. It becames a bug-hunt when you have your kid asking you for help, or when you actually have evidence.

That's real evidence- not an assumption that any adult male communicating with a juvenile is a paedophile.

And there isn't just the one way to bring up kids correctly.

No lazz I dont think i did. I dont know of any parent that is willing to gamble that the guy is doing nothing wrong I am sorry if you dont understand my point. Id rather find out before its to late and if you dont get that then i dont know how else i can explain it.
Ur right there is no set way to raise a kid you do the best you can and hope you are making the right choices.

as for the adult males being pedophiles the only adult males that need to be talking to my childern besides parents and family should be maybe a long known neighbir, lonf term of friend of the family, teachers etc In no way will i accept a middle aged man talking to any of my children on the computer

[Bugs ****ing Bunny]

Don't bring them here then. I hear that a certain "Ming" fits that nefarious category.

[Mrs. Tuberski]

Originally posted by Lazarus and the Gimp


Can't speak for anyone else, but I don't hit my kids. There isn't just one way to bring kids up correctly.

I dont hit my kids either but i guarantee if my 15 yo boy who out weighs me and is taller then i, tries i will take him down. I am not a small lady i am 5 11 145lbs
but my son is 6 3 250 he will not raise a hand i cn guarantee it.

[Whaleboy]

In no way will i accept a middle aged man talking to any of my children on the computer

At best that's naive, at worse that's just stupid. The best way to let something bad happen is to forbid your kids to do it. Either you take away the computer/password it, or you adopt a pragmatic approach of teaching the kid and yourself about the dangers. It can be incredibly useful for kids to have contact with older people who can advise them or perhaps tutor them etc, it would be blind to simply whitewash that out.

Remember also that you're not going to be around to protect your kids forever, if you wrap them in cotton wool then how are they supposed to cope when they enter the real world unless they are equipped to make decisions for themselves?

[Mrs. Tuberski]

Originally posted by Lazarus and the Gimp
Don't bring them here then. I hear that a certain "Ming" fits that nefarious category.

I hope that is a joke And not to worry my kids arent allowed here on polly its blocked on their computer. I only have one kid in the chat rooms and he is 15 the 10 and 8 yo are not allowed.

[Whaleboy]

I dont hit my kids either but i guarantee if my 15 yo boy who out weighs me and is taller then i, tries i will take him down. I am not a small lady i am 5 11 145lbs

Christ almighty, you're talking about taking your kids down? You really should seek some professional help!

[Mrs. Tuberski]

Originally posted by Whaleboy


At best that's naive, at worse that's just stupid. The best way to let something bad happen is to forbid your kids to do it. Either you take away the computer/password it, or you adopt a pragmatic approach of teaching the kid and yourself about the dangers. It can be incredibly useful for kids to have contact with older people who can advise them or perhaps tutor them etc, it would be blind to simply whitewash that out.

Remember also that you're not going to be around to protect your kids forever, if you wrap them in cotton wool then how are they supposed to cope when they enter the real world unless they are equipped to make decisions for themselves?

I said i will not accept it. does not mean that it wont happen and i have told my one kid that is in chat rooms to be aware and the dangers of the pc and lurkers. I am not wrapping them in cotton. My oldest wants to go to the movies he knows the rules i will drop u off you will call me when the movie is over, if u dont then you wont be allowed to do it again. If he breaks the rules i set then he has to pay the consequenses which is loss of the privlidge

[Mrs. Tuberski]

Originally posted by Whaleboy


Christ almighty, you're talking about taking your kids down? You really should seek some professional help!

what the hell am i suppsosed to do let him hit me i think not. thing you didnt get is that he wouldnt try cause he knows that i wouldnt roll over if he did. so try another troll hun

[Whaleboy]

I said i will not accept it. does not mean that it wont happen

You're fudging the question. Would you, or would you not tell a child not to talk to such people?

[Ben Kenobi]

It can be incredibly useful for kids to have contact with older people who can advise them or perhaps tutor them etc, it would be blind to simply whitewash that out.

I'm sure. And I'm also sure that what you consider appropriate 'tutoring' is rather more broad than most.

Remember also that you're not going to be around to protect your kids forever, if you wrap them in cotton wool then how are they supposed to cope when they enter the real world unless they are equipped to make decisions for themselves?

With things like this, where kids have been raped and killed, you protect them so that they will live to reach the age where they can make decisions for themselves. I can't see how restricting a kid from chatting with adult males on the internet is going to render them incapable of making decisions for themselves.

[Whaleboy]

what the hell am i suppsosed to do let him hit me i think not. thing you didnt get is that he wouldnt try cause he knows that i wouldnt roll over if he did. so try another troll hun

If he wouldn't hit you then why mention it?

I would never hit my own mother because I love her dearly, she'd do anything for me even though she's ill and in constant pain, and because I find it abhorrent to hit a woman. If any of those things don't apply to your relationship to your son, then I would still suggest seeking help.