Sex cause your just 'friends'. Is it right?

[Lorizael]

I agree as well. Except for one thing. I don't like the belief that love is absent of logic. I strongly believe in the principal that on a small enough level, everything is understandable. I think that once we know enough about the human mind, love will make sense. Right now of course, it just causes lots of problems. Well lots of good, too.

[Bereta_Eder]

On the concept of cheating.

I certaintly dont condone it.

But I have seen couples go through it and manage to survive as couples. Including married couples. Even if they went through hell... and made promises never to do it again.

(although they did, but I'm saying no names )

No case is identical.

[Serb]

Originally posted by Caligastia


If you and your wife/girlfriend have an understanding that your relationship is monogamous, and you go and sleep with another woman, you are a liar and a cheat.

So what? Someone should to be bad, not every person is so saint as you are.
I'm proud of you, really. Perhaps you are very happy man.

[Serb]

Originally posted by David Floyd
Yes, that means I would turn down a one night stand with the hottest girl at my university.

Do you really think that you'll ever have opportunity to demonstrate your high moral principles to her?

[Serb]

Originally posted by Ned


I agree. It is also obvious that this "next door neighbor" has a thing for your friend. She may want him all to herself.

It's not necessary. Is it so hard to imagine that people could have sex only because they just like to have sex with each other? That she might just like to have sex with him and nothing more.

[Bereta_Eder]

Applied example:

I know this couple. The wife has cheated on her husband once. She said that her husband wasnt giving enough sexual attention at her.

The husband found out.

The couple went through hell.

She promised never to do it again and they escaped the divorce by a very close distance.

Then... she goes and does it again. Cheats on him.

But now she is too afraid to tell him because she fears that would be the end of their relationship (they have kids too) and she has promised to herself never to do it again.


I dont know... life is complicated.... logically she is to blame but if she doesnt do it again I guess it's ok?

There is no definite answer. It involves those who it involves and each case is different I think.

(but if it was me... boy... I'd kill her (j/k) )

[David Floyd]

Do you really think that you'll ever have opportunity to demonstrate your high moral principles to her?

I suppose it depends on if this hypothetical person is a stuck-up ***** or not, quite frankly

[Dominikos]

I say, why can't the girlfriend just agree with it?

Then the three of them could sleep together. The man loves the girls. The girls love one another and the man. What a perfect arrangement!

I would love it!

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~Dominik - Lord of the Putumayo~

[Serb]

Originally posted by paiktis22
She said that her husband wasnt giving enough sexual attention at her.

If this is the real reason, then husbant should do something about this. His guilty in this situation no less then she is.

(but if it was me... boy... I'd kill her (j/k) )

It's not a reason for a murder. It's a good reason to become angry, mad, excellent reason to get drunk, but murder? No it don't worth it. Everybody could made mistakes and even if she have sex with some one else, it doesn't mean that she didn't love you anymore.

[Sprayber]

Originally posted by Lorizael
I agree as well. Except for one thing. I don't like the belief that love is absent of logic. I strongly believe in the principal that on a small enough level, everything is understandable. I think that once we know enough about the human mind, love will make sense. Right now of course, it just causes lots of problems. Well lots of good, too.

If you find it, I'll be the first to thank you.

[Lorizael]

I doubt very much I will find it. I'm just trying to. Didn't say it was easy.........

[Dominikos]

Hell, they should have threesome marriages made legal everywhere!!

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~Dominik - Lord of the Putumayo~

[Lorizael]

You do know posts in the OT don't increase your post count, right Dominikos?

[Bereta_Eder]

Originally posted by Serb


If this is the real reason, then husbant should do something about this. His guilty in this situation no less then she is.

Maybe so Serb. BUT she also has to make a choice if she loves him. This man is more interested in books than sex. So she also has to chose if she wants him or if she wants more sex.

It's not a reason for a murder. It's a good reason to become angry, mad, excellent reason to get drunk, but murder? No it don't worth it. Everybody could made mistakes and even if she have sex with some one else, it doesn't mean that she didn't love you anymore.

"j/k" (which I said in my pervious post) means "joking"

[Serb]

Originally posted by Dominikos
I say, why can't the girlfriend just agree with it?

Then the three of them could sleep together. The man loves the girls. The girls love one another and the man. What a perfect arrangement!

I would love it!

Prepare to be burned on stick. I just found that Apolyton is the gathering place of saints and people with great moral values. You sounds like devil for them. So you should better run.