Sex cause your just 'friends'. Is it right?

[Lung]

Originally posted by Boris Godunov

If I were you, fg (not saying you should do this, just saying it's what I would do), I would ream him out over this and tell him he'd better shape up or he can not consider me his friend any longer.

You would ream him?!! He might vehemently object! Especially if he's rooting two girls

[Lung]

Originally posted by faded glory
Im not telling him anything lung. And yes he works with me and told me all this the other night over a glass of brew.

One question - did he tell you, or brag to you? I bet the latter!

[Boris Godunov]

I said "ream," not "rim."

[Flubber]

There are two different issues here. The first is infidelity in a comitted relationship if the other party expects fidelitythe other party is. Either be in a relationship or not but don't try to hide stuff. If its an " open " relationship then pretty much anything is fair game.

The second idea is the concept of a "f**k buddy"-- an old friend that you sleep with sometimes but no one thinks there is a long term relationship in the offing-- Again, I see nothing wrong with this if there is no deceit or anything-- In the past I had one . . . we got together sometimes when we both happened to be single

[Lorizael]

I will echo: As long as the relationship is known to be open, there is absolutely nothing wrong with this. Otherwise he's a horrible person. Doesn't sound like it's open though considering the fact that he had to "play it off" to his girlfriend.

But my present girlfriend (who I've been with for eight months now) has been with other men and women during the course of our relationship and I really have no problem with it just as long as she is honest with me.

I would have been with others if I could get others. But that's another story.

[Serb]

What a nightmare!!!
Cheating scum!!!
Shame on you bastard!!!


Shame on me too, but I see nothing wrong in his actions.
They know each other since childhood and for sure this girl knows him very well and didn't have any illusions about him. And I no wonder if she knew about his second girlfreind. So, I don't see how he betrayed her, they just have sex as they have it many times before. As for his second girlfreind, what all of you are saints here? What those of you who are married, never slept with other women after you was already married?

[orange]

as long as both partners are willing and understand the meaning or lack there of of the deed, and as long as they are not in committed relationships, i see no problem with it. However, it's usually not this simple.

[loinburger]

Well, there's nothing I can say that hasn't been said, except for "pantaloons."

[Wraith]

The whole thread and no one answered the vocabulary question...

The word you're looking for is "philanderer".

Wraith
"Remember, if you smoke after sex you're doing it too fast."
-- Woody Allen

[Boris Godunov]

I thought my "bastard" covered it just fine, actually.

[drake]

Sounds like a John Bobbit wannabe. (Asking to get his cak chopped off)

[MrFun]

Originally posted by Boris Godunov
I thought my "bastard" covered it just fine, actually.

Yeah -- your term is better.

[chequita guevara]

As long as everyone is consenting, MYOB.

[Caligastia]

Originally posted by Serb
What those of you who are married, never slept with other women after you was already married?

No. Is this so strange?

You have a strange concept of morality.

[drake]

You don't marry someone if you want to be with someone else. Thats retarded logic.