I'd rather play computer games than have sex with a woman

[alva]

I don't thnk he means it to sound as bad as he did, but yes, the novelty does wear of after several years.

[Saint Marcus]

I'm with Alva. That's exactly what I meant. Sure sex can still be quite enjoyable, but at times I prefer not to have sex and just play games or watch a movie. All you "I want sex 24/7" types are just kidding themselves. Everyone's who's been in a (semi)serious relationship knows this.

[Urban Ranger]

You're a selfish bastard, Saint Marcus. The primary objective of making love with your SO is not relieving yourself (although it is important too), but to please her.

[Sprayber]

Originally posted by Urban Ranger
You're a selfish bastard, Saint Marcus. The primary objective of making love with your SO is not relieving yourself (although it is important too), but to please her.

And that is why he fails

[Flubber]

Originally posted by Saint Marcus
I'm with Alva. That's exactly what I meant. Sure sex can still be quite enjoyable, but at times I prefer not to have sex and just play games or watch a movie. All you "I want sex 24/7" types are just kidding themselves. Everyone's who's been in a (semi)serious relationship knows this.

Well I am a 36 year old married guy who never sees sex as a dull chore. But I am far from a "want sex 24/7" type either. All I said is that I prefer sex to games and never find sex a chore.

You'll also note that I commented that my computer is "always in the mood". I have an 18 month old son that keeps us very very busy so you bet I choose sex when its possible. Any parent knows those times can be infrequent and you take advantage every time you can

[RGBVideo]

Hehe, dont kid yourself of course you want sex... maybe you prefer video games to a **** with a hooker... but would you turn down real sex with a real hot woman that loves you? I call bs ...

Love is nothing but a hippie lie. I think we both know it.

AND, you both are virgins.

Isn't Diss already 30-something years old?

[Saint Marcus]

no girl has ever complained about my abilities to please her.

but I don't have Flubbers problem. I have the option to have sex every day...and after some time that really tires me out. I'm willing to bet that none of you out here can keep that up for long periods at a time. So yes, there are days when it feels like a chore (cause I need to please her and I'm not doing it just to relieve myself). Some days I just want to relax and play games and watch movies. Is that really so bad?

[alva]

No, it isn't.

You're a selfish bastard, Saint Marcus. The primary objective of making love with your SO is not relieving yourself (although it is important too), but to please her.

Yeah so? Given the choice:
1. Would you rather make love to someone who's faking it because he/she's not in the mood
2. Is just honest about it ?

[:) Smiley]

Ideally I'd want to have both... but otherwise gaming has a higher cost/benefit ratio.

[Traianvs]

You can have sex for a short while, but a game one can play for a much longer time, and it doesn't nag and yell at ya (though hardware sometimes lets you down so eh hmm...)

Besides sex is not the most important thing, some people don't often do it because they don't feel the need for it that much

[Winston]

Computer games give you the advantage of being able to immediately reload and do it over if you happen to make a premature move.

And you can turn off the sound if it starts bothering you.

But very few of them will tell you how great it was, or keep you warm at night.

I guess there's a time and place for everything.

[Cruddy]

I'd rather play computer games than have sex with a woman

Depends very much on the woman and the computer game.

The idea of going steady in a relationship is that you make time for them first... which doesn't sound to me like where you're coming from.

Casual, recreational sex is something else again.

[Flubber]

Originally posted by Saint Marcus but I don't have Flubbers problem.

I have no problem . . . I have a beautiful child that doesn't sleep enough for my liking

Originally posted by Saint Marcus
I have the option to have sex every day...

EVERY EVERY DAY ??? She doesn't even want to take a couple of days "break" once a month. She is never tired, sick, at work, gone to visit Grandma etc??

Originally posted by Saint Marcus ...and after some time that really tires me out. I'm willing to bet that none of you out here can keep that up for long periods at a time. So yes, there are days when it feels like a chore (cause I need to please her and I'm not doing it just to relieve myself).

I do have times when there are activities I would prefer to sex-- The most usual choice is sleep !! But I have never seen sex as a dull chore . . . ever. I enjoy and get a thrill from pleasing my partner.

Originally posted by Saint Marcus Some days I just want to relax and play games and watch movies. Is that really so bad?

Nothing at all wrong with it. We all have different sex drives. . .. Its sort of like your favorite food . . . No matter how much you like it, you don't want it every day

[Elok]

Hmm, I feel like being stupid. Who here takes an hour to reboot their computer between games?

[alva]

Originally posted by Winston
Computer games give you the advantage of being able to immediately reload and do it over if you happen to make a premature move.

And you can turn off the sound if it starts bothering you.

But very few of them will tell you how great it was, or keep you warm at night.

I guess there's a time and place for everything.

Yup, also graphics keep getting better as years go by, while the wifey on the other hand...