Re: There is only one word for this...
Her age shouldn't matter within reason. Would you be concerned if she were 5 years younger than you?
You shouldn't be so hard on yourself. You had a long term relationship where she went somewhat mental, correct? Where is that on you?
Just relax and enjoy a bit of the road that life is gonna take you on. Maybe it works and is forever, and maybe not. Who knows? The point is the trip, and that she is hot.
Originally posted by Guynemer
WUTANG!
I just got back from the best first date of my life. As luck would have it, it was with the best-looking woman I've ever dated (by a country mile). A chemical engineering Ph.D. candidate, originally from Korea, trained at UBC. Funny, easy to talk to (not an unremarkable thing for me, I tend to be tongue-tied around women), absolutely gorgeous, and a body that could best be described as "eminently lickable." She was talking about what we should do on future dates before our salad even arrived, so I think she liked me.
Only three problems:
1. She's a bit older than me--she's 31. I don't really care, and she doesn't look a day over 26 anyway, but I suppose it could end up being a problem.
2. She thinks I look like John Carter from ER, so she's clearly delusional.
3. If I have learned anything is my life, I am destined to royally **** this up somehow.
Regardless, I'm gonna try to set something up on a weeknight this week, as I'll be working weekend call for the next couple weeks. She mentioned enjoying playing with dogs at a pet shop or shelter, then a dollar movie, then a local ice cream place; this, to me, is a nigh-perfect date. I really like this woman; the whole experience even took the edge off of the Michigan-Notre Dame game, believe it or not.
Perhaps this whole "doctor" thing is going to pay off after all.
WUTANG!
I just got back from the best first date of my life. As luck would have it, it was with the best-looking woman I've ever dated (by a country mile). A chemical engineering Ph.D. candidate, originally from Korea, trained at UBC. Funny, easy to talk to (not an unremarkable thing for me, I tend to be tongue-tied around women), absolutely gorgeous, and a body that could best be described as "eminently lickable." She was talking about what we should do on future dates before our salad even arrived, so I think she liked me.
Only three problems:
1. She's a bit older than me--she's 31. I don't really care, and she doesn't look a day over 26 anyway, but I suppose it could end up being a problem.
2. She thinks I look like John Carter from ER, so she's clearly delusional.
3. If I have learned anything is my life, I am destined to royally **** this up somehow.
Regardless, I'm gonna try to set something up on a weeknight this week, as I'll be working weekend call for the next couple weeks. She mentioned enjoying playing with dogs at a pet shop or shelter, then a dollar movie, then a local ice cream place; this, to me, is a nigh-perfect date. I really like this woman; the whole experience even took the edge off of the Michigan-Notre Dame game, believe it or not.
Perhaps this whole "doctor" thing is going to pay off after all.

You shouldn't be so hard on yourself. You had a long term relationship where she went somewhat mental, correct? Where is that on you?
Just relax and enjoy a bit of the road that life is gonna take you on. Maybe it works and is forever, and maybe not. Who knows? The point is the trip, and that she is hot.
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