Video on how to get a woman?

[Fake Boris]

FWIW, I have a friend who is inevitably drawn into committed women.

The question is seldom - almost never - whether or not she'll cheat on her boyfriend, but how many dates it's gonna take.

[David Floyd]

Not everyone is desperate.

No, but some of us are lazy.

[David Floyd]

The question is seldom - almost never - whether or not she'll cheat on her boyfriend, but how many dates it's gonna take.

If it's more than one, he's doing it wrong. She's already unhappy, why else would she be dating someone besides her boyfriend? From there, it should be an easy ****.

[Fake Boris]

I disagree. Some women genuinely feel guilty for cheating, they need some preparation.

Besides, it's not always a date - it could be hanging out, and you'd want some witnesses awaybefore you do something.

[Bugs ****ing Bunny]

the woman in question is smart and didn't look good in high school so she wasn't that well socialised by female standards.

Most of the women I know would beat you to death with your own testicles for typing that.

[Bugs ****ing Bunny]

And these aren't average girls. These are stunning women who model AND are honor students in a major like engineering. Top prospects whose ex-boyfriends are football or basketball players (consider I went to a Division I school).

The problem is everything grinds to a halt in Week 2. All of a sudden, all interest vanishes.

Have you considered becoming more interesting?

[Theben]

It took til page 4 for Bugs to point out Albert's problem.*

Basically you lack confidence. Women are attracted to that. However if that person has no skills or interests (you, I gather) they will notice eventually and move on.

Also the whiff of desperation will send women fleeing. Desperation= no confidence, despite any initial 1st impressions.

*- Asher was close; especially with not listening to aheeshm or Hera

[Asher]

People can't fix being interesting. You are, or you aren't. No matter how much they may know (see LOTM).

[Bugs ****ing Bunny]

"Interesting" can be faked. Cultivate some sort of charming eccentricity and you'll keep a certain type of person interested. They probably won't be very bright, but how picky do you want to be?

[David Floyd]

"Interesting" can be faked. Cultivate some sort of charming eccentricity and you'll keep a certain type of person interested. They probably won't be very bright, but how picky do you want to be?

The good news is, he has "not very bright" covered. See, e.g., his transcript of her text conversation above.

[Imran Siddiqui]

Your idea of "love" is dead, JM

One word: bull****.

Ok, more words. This "knowledge" seems to be coming from someone who just hasn't actually found a partner yet and is still viewing relationships as transactional.

[Imran Siddiqui]

Hera you're just moving into the second phase of the relationship, after all the initial hormone driven frenzy you get to work out how you spend your lives together. Wanting to make someone feel good is a good thing not a weakness.

The only thing that'll kill it now is your lack of self-esteem. If you think you're not good enough for her that's what will cause the problem.

This.

I read Hera's post and was shaking my head. He's practically given up because the "honeymoon period" of his relationship is over? WTF?! If you think the relationship is going to end and heading on a downward path, it will. Because you've just started on a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Screw that! Realize that the newness phase is over and start on the working on building a lasting relationship.

Seriously dude, stop sounding so weak.

[Fake Boris]

edit: xpost

[Asher]

I love threads like these because it reinforces how normal and well-adjusted I am compared to the rest of the freaks here.

[Fake Boris]

You're afflicted with a perverse and debilitating mental illness, fool.