This is getting annoying... I have met the girl of my dreams, we both love each other very much. Unfortunately it doesn't seem like it's going to be as easy for us as for most other couples
Why?
We are not allowed to get married in Denmark, unless we want to sell an arm and a leg to afford the expenses needed for her to be allowed to stay in Denmark
If we get married in Germany (where I live now) we don't have to pay that amount of money, but that requires that we are lucky that the German Embassy is kind enough to give her a stay in Germany (law says that she should be allowed as all requirements are fulfilled, but sounds like a lot of people have said that even if it's fulfilled they didn't get allowed to stay)
But before we can ask the German embassy for her to be allowed to stay Temporary in Germany, we need some of her papers fixed, so the papers are correct. Unfortunately that requires her mother to actually DO what we requested. If she doesn't do that now, my girl wont be allowed to stay in Germany... and from the look of it, that is not going to happen (her mother is just lazy and complaining all the time... but she wants us to get married)
If she can't be allowed to stay in Germany one of two things can happen:
1. She moves back home... the other end of the world
2. She moves to Norway to become an Au Pair
If she moves back home, then she can fix the papers herself and try from the embassy there to be allowed to stay in Germany... but from the sound of it, that means that I wont see her in 6-12 months from when she moves back home
If she moves to Norway we can try from there, she'll be closer, but still too far away. Au Pair in Norway is for 2 years, so for two years I'll only see her a few weeks per year at best...at worst I wont see her at all... Depends on her host family, some host families are pure evil
Also there's no guarantee that she can stay with me after her contract ends
The law in DK says that dirty old men are allowed to buy wifes (no love needed, only thing needed is money which means that you're probably old too if you have that kind of money)
Young people in love are not allowed to be together






Why?
We are not allowed to get married in Denmark, unless we want to sell an arm and a leg to afford the expenses needed for her to be allowed to stay in Denmark
If we get married in Germany (where I live now) we don't have to pay that amount of money, but that requires that we are lucky that the German Embassy is kind enough to give her a stay in Germany (law says that she should be allowed as all requirements are fulfilled, but sounds like a lot of people have said that even if it's fulfilled they didn't get allowed to stay)
But before we can ask the German embassy for her to be allowed to stay Temporary in Germany, we need some of her papers fixed, so the papers are correct. Unfortunately that requires her mother to actually DO what we requested. If she doesn't do that now, my girl wont be allowed to stay in Germany... and from the look of it, that is not going to happen (her mother is just lazy and complaining all the time... but she wants us to get married)

If she can't be allowed to stay in Germany one of two things can happen:
1. She moves back home... the other end of the world
2. She moves to Norway to become an Au Pair
If she moves back home, then she can fix the papers herself and try from the embassy there to be allowed to stay in Germany... but from the sound of it, that means that I wont see her in 6-12 months from when she moves back home
If she moves to Norway we can try from there, she'll be closer, but still too far away. Au Pair in Norway is for 2 years, so for two years I'll only see her a few weeks per year at best...at worst I wont see her at all... Depends on her host family, some host families are pure evil
Also there's no guarantee that she can stay with me after her contract ends
The law in DK says that dirty old men are allowed to buy wifes (no love needed, only thing needed is money which means that you're probably old too if you have that kind of money)
Young people in love are not allowed to be together








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