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  • #91
    Women are like elephants. They're enjoyable to look at, but I'm not sure I'd want to own one..

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    • #92
      Originally posted by Fake Boris
      Women are definitely into casual sex.
      Not after you marry them. Not with you anyway.
      I drank beer. I like beer. I still like beer. ... Do you like beer Senator?
      - Justice Brett Kavanaugh

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      • #93
        Originally posted by Lancer


        What Snoopy said. This is one reason why I respect women so much. They aren't just men with different social conditions limiting their behavior. They have something more...


        You poor, deluded man!

        Something more?!



        Something less, I would say.

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        • #94
          Originally posted by Alinestra Covelia
          This may be apropos of nothing much, but I thought I'd throw it out there.

          Question: Do you prefer your bedpartner to be a virgin or not?

          My answer: Heck no!

          What is the general feeling on this?
          My answer: Heck no!
          THEY!!111 OMG WTF LOL LET DA NOMADS AND TEH S3D3NTARY PEOPLA BOTH MAEK BITER AXP3REINCES
          AND TEH GRAAT SINS OF THERE [DOCTRINAL] INOVATIONS BQU3ATH3D SMAL
          AND!!1!11!!! LOL JUST IN CAES A DISPUTANT CALS U 2 DISPUT3 ABOUT THEYRE CLAMES
          DO NOT THAN DISPUT3 ON THEM 3XCAPT BY WAY OF AN 3XTARNAL DISPUTA!!!!11!! WTF

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          • #95
            Originally posted by Lancer


            What Snoopy said. This is one reason why I respect women so much. They aren't just men with different social conditions limiting their behavior. They have something more...
            Now, more seriously:

            Women are not goddesses.

            Shatter that pedestal.

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            • #96
              Originally posted by aneeshm
              Now, more seriously:

              Women are not goddesses.

              Shatter that pedestal.
              Hey, there is nothing wrong with Lancer's idea on things. Men should treat women like they are special. I am sure that Lancer speaks from experience and that he knows that if he treats his wife with respect, she will return the favor.
              In the beginning the Universe was created. This made a lot of people very angry and has been widely regarded as a bad move. - Douglas Adams

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              • #97
                Originally posted by Alinestra Covelia
                This may be apropos of nothing much, but I thought I'd throw it out there.

                Question: Do you prefer your bedpartner to be a virgin or not?

                My answer: Heck no!

                What is the general feeling on this?
                I don't know about the general feeling, but yes, I would like to possess or take a few virgins.

                This is a primal impulse, not a reasoned decision.
                Last edited by aneeshm; April 13, 2008, 14:04.

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                • #98
                  Originally posted by Cartimandua


                  Hey, there is nothing wrong with Lancer's idea on things. Men should treat women like they are special. I am sure that Lancer speaks from experience and that he knows that if he treats his wife with respect, she will return the favor.
                  There is nothing wrong with respect. But abjectness or cravenness is another thing altogether. Often, "respect" gets used as a cover for the latter two.

                  You respect someone for what they are, not for some grotesquely distorted idealised image you have made in your mind of what they should be.

                  Respecting people for what they are:
                  Putting people on false pedestals:

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                  • #99
                    Aneeshm is suprisingly insightfull about such matters.
                    I drank beer. I like beer. I still like beer. ... Do you like beer Senator?
                    - Justice Brett Kavanaugh

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                    • Even if there is significant discussion on sex prior to the marriage (though how frank can it be if its not yet experienced,
                      Try to think back when you were younger. You may not have experienced sex, but I'm certain you come into it with certain expectations, even if they are wrong.

                      I don't know), certain things might be acceptable intellectually, but when the parties actually got down to business, post nuptials, there might be a psychological impediment (sounded good in theory). Or something that isn't contemplated pre-nuptial develops into a desire by a party. (you want me to do THAT?)
                      Which happens in any relationship, not just with two folks who haven't had sex before. Yes there is going to be a psychological barrier, just like it was for all of you on your first time. I'm not sure why that's a bad thing. It might be awkward the first few times, but both of you will be awkward.
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                      • Originally posted by Kidicious
                        Aneeshm is suprisingly insightfull about such matters.
                        Yeah... wtf?
                        “I give you a new commandment, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also should love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”
                        - John 13:34-35 (NRSV)

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                        • [QUOTE] Originally posted by Ben Kenobi


                          Try to think back when you were younger. You may not have experienced sex, but I'm certain you come into it with certain expectations, even if they are wrong. [QUOTE]

                          My point was that if you haven't experienced any form of sexual pleasure beyond your own devices, you're not going to have a fully formed idea of what you want from a sexual partner. And I think sexual fulfillment is an important aspect of a successful marriage. See next passage.

                          Which happens in any relationship, not just with two folks who haven't had sex before. Yes there is going to be a psychological barrier, just like it was for all of you on your first time. I'm not sure why that's a bad thing. It might be awkward the first few times, but both of you will be awkward.
                          Awkward really isn't the feeling I was going for. I was being purposefully obtuse. I can be more specific if you wish. Personally, I'd much rather know before hand that my potential spouse was into something I find repulsive, like the aforementioned golden showers, etc before getting locked into a marriage. Cards like that need to be on the table. And the simple fact of the matter is, if the parties aren't experienced sexually, they aren't going to know the extent of their own perversions. And do you really want your spouse to be sexually unfulfilled in your marriage?

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                          • Originally posted by Alinestra Covelia
                            It's like Mark Twain noted - men are like candles, and women are like candlestick holders.

                            ...

                            The candlestick holder will still be there even after the candles have burned out.
                            Interesting anology, since there's no point to candleholders without candles.
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                            • Originally posted by aneeshm


                              There is nothing wrong with respect. But abjectness or cravenness is another thing altogether. Often, "respect" gets used as a cover for the latter two.

                              You respect someone for what they are, not for some grotesquely distorted idealised image you have made in your mind of what they should be.

                              Respecting people for what they are:
                              Putting people on false pedestals:
                              My wife is barely 5 ft tall. Putting her on a pedestal just makes sense.
                              Long time member @ Apolyton
                              Civilization player since the dawn of time

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                              • Why? What do you want in front of your face?
                                “I give you a new commandment, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also should love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”
                                - John 13:34-35 (NRSV)

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