Argh! I got played!

[MarkG]

good lord lancer, are you on a mission or something? go into the guinness for the man who setup most marriages with young, loving philippine girls?

[Lancer]

I have been revealed!

[Ben Kenobi]

Depends, 6 years is a long time.

Do you love this gal Imran?

[-Jrabbit]

I agree: move on, Imran. It was never a "real" relationship anyway. Just be glad you haven't loaned her a bunch of money and don't have community property or kids.

This is definitely for the better. Don't EVER go back. That way lies madness.

[asleepathewheel]

Originally posted by Imran Siddiqui


Well he does have a mother who would more accepting of him having a relationship with a non-Muslim woman. (though I'm not sure if that's going to matter, seeing as I think that she's basically not interested in a relationship with T, but more a friends with benefits thing until he wants more and then she'll move on again).

Not sure if that add anything to Poly necessarily.

You're right, that doesn't add much.

I'm really impressed by you that you aren't going for the cheap shot. Though its a bit more devious to make her wonder if you know...if she even cares...

[Zkribbler]

Originally posted by Colon™
Punch T in the face.

Punch a lawyer in the face?!? Er...you got any alternative advice?

[Colon™]

Imran is a lawyer too, so it evens out.

[Zkribbler]

Start dating a beautiful woman. The best revenge is living well.

[asleepathewheel]

Too bad she's not Imran's superior....or is she

[Imran Siddiqui]

So, an update:

I couldn't contain myself, I guess. I parked my car at North Springs Station and what I feared occurred. The ex pulled in right after me and walked up with me. So I asked her about her weekend and asked if anything fun or interesting happened. She mentioned her horse and avoiding her friend's fiance (who she hates) at lunch both days. Nothing about T spending the evening. So I mentioned that I saw something interesting (like I said, I couldn't contain myself) and went for a jog at 8 AM on Sat and saw T's car there.

So she indicated that the ex and T shared a bottle of wine while watching movies and T slept overnight on the couch. T basically never drinks. The ex indicated that wasn't "interesting" is because T just gets this goofy grin on his face when drunk, but nothing more. I'd imagine T being drunk is fascinating in itself, since it is such a rare thing. And being so drunk he had to sleep on the couch... well...

So then (I couldn't contain myself), I went for the jugular. I told her that when I went for a jog on Sunday I noted her car wasn't there. She asked when and I said 8 (when it was really more like 7). She said she couldn’t sleep and went to the barn. She said she woke at 6:15 and when nothing was on TV, went to the barn at (ready for this) 7:30. I didn't turn around and tell her that I was jogging at 7, not 8 (no aha, gotcha), but then I refrained from starting any conversation and was just cold and let her do so.

So, I somewhat (but not 100%) confirmed my suspicions. The lying is what really tipped me off and then on the rest of the ride, while it was quiet, she was the one starting conversations and had a kind of "Oh ****" look on her face.

So that's good. I'm done now. I guess I needed to call her out to be all good.

[-Jrabbit]

She's either been boinking this other guy for a long time, or just likes having him on a string more than you. Either way, it's clear she's not capable of a normal, healthy relationship.

Best thing now is to stop this stalker-like tracking of her movements. Even that helps her retain the power position, and it's not a healthy thing for you, either.

[Imran Siddiqui]

Well, I just notice things while jogging (which I've taken up again to get back into shape). Though, you are right. I should keep them to myself in the future.

[-Jrabbit]

Correct.

[Patroklos]

Imran,

I think you are underestimating how pathetic this character is. I wouldn't be supprised if he is simply playing the cuddle *****, in which case he is to be pittied rather than scorned.

It is also possible that they sat up all night talking about you, and it was so late/they were drinking that he crashed there. He is the safe guy.

T

[LordShiva]

Originally posted by -Jrabbit
Best thing now is to stop this stalker-like tracking of her movements. Even that helps her retain the power position, and it's not a healthy thing for you, either.