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  • #106
    Originally posted by Imran Siddiqui
    Well, I just notice things while jogging (which I've taken up again to get back into shape). Though, you are right. I should keep them to myself in the future.
    yea, as fun as stalking is, you should definitely keep it yourself. oh and on here.

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    • #107
      grog want tank...Grog Want Tank... GROG WANT TANK!

      The trick isn't to break some eggs to make an omelette, it's convincing the eggs to break themselves in order to aspire to omelettehood.

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      • #108
        The situation is a little different when you live in the same complex, I had this exact situation last summer. Is it stalking if I notice her car is or isn't there when I drive home? What if I notice if her light is on when I walking to my apartment. It led to this ridiculous tendancy of mine to enter the complex from a different and inconvienient enterance and then forcing myself to not look left when walking home to avoid any sense of stalking. But then again isn't that just as obsessive?

        I worked at the same place as well, but not with her. It led to this strange sense that I had been caught stalking just because I would see her in a hallway I wouldn't expect to have seen her. I would avoid her area of the building entirely so that the mear idea that I had gone over there just to stalk her would not come up.

        Thank god she transfered.
        "The DPRK is still in a state of war with the U.S. It's called a black out." - Che explaining why orbital nightime pictures of NK show few lights. Seriously.

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        • #109
          The situation is a little different when you live in the same complex, I had this exact situation last summer. Is it stalking if I notice her car is or isn't there when I drive home? What if I notice if her light is on when I walking to my apartment. It led to this ridiculous tendancy of mine to enter the complex from a different and inconvienient enterance and then forcing myself to not look left when walking home to avoid any sense of stalking. But then again isn't that just as obsessive?


          Exactly. I'm sure in her mind its all "stalking", but I mean isn't it like a train wreck? It's hard NOT to look over when it is right there in front (her building is basically at a diagonal to mine). Forcing yourself not to look becomes a wierd game.

          How do you avoid it? Of course she's going to assume the worst.
          “I give you a new commandment, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also should love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”
          - John 13:34-35 (NRSV)

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          • #110
            Originally posted by b etor


            yea, as fun as stalking is, you should definitely keep it yourself. oh and on here.


            That's no fun.

            Try and get some hidden cameras in her home and a tracking device on her car. That way every time she does some guy you can revel in the misery and post the pics on Poly.

            Hmm, on second thought maybe b etor is right.


            I can't help but think there might be a sitcom here, 'Lawyers in Love' or something.


            Don't feel bad Imran, I've been through stuff like this that just seems so wrong. Several times in fact. Can't remember all their names anymore.

            That's not to say that the wound ever heals, but eventually you get senile.
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            • #111
              Exactly. I'm sure in her mind its all "stalking", but I mean isn't it like a train wreck? It's hard NOT to look over when it is right there in front (her building is basically at a diagonal to mine). Forcing yourself not to look becomes a wierd game.
              Well, actually confronting her about your "stalking" doesn't help in your denial
              "The DPRK is still in a state of war with the U.S. It's called a black out." - Che explaining why orbital nightime pictures of NK show few lights. Seriously.

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              • #112


                Perhaps so.
                “I give you a new commandment, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also should love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”
                - John 13:34-35 (NRSV)

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                • #113
                  I does suck, and honselty there is no way to keep her from assuming you are stalking because

                  1.) it lets her believe you are crazy and thus she is in the right for the breakup

                  2.) it lets her assume she is just unforgetable and thus makes her feel good about herself

                  3.) it lets her paint you as a phsyco and thus win joint friends onto her side (assuming you guys have any).

                  Thats why I took great pains to just avoid her outright, so nobody could claim I was stalking, and thus I kept all the friens (which was not only good for me but devestating for her, double score!).

                  Now that doesn't mean I didn't notice things, and I saw plenty of dudes pick her up or drop her off or saw the same car stay overnight. Some things you can't help, but I never gave her the satisfaction of knowing I noticed, not to mention cared.
                  "The DPRK is still in a state of war with the U.S. It's called a black out." - Che explaining why orbital nightime pictures of NK show few lights. Seriously.

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                  • #114
                    All this jogging/stalking will get him in shape and he'll end up in a brand new 'Lawyers in Love' episode with a new sexy actress because he's so fit. (physicly)
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                    • #115
                      Single female lawyer...



                      [sing]Single Female Lawyer
                      Fighting for her clients
                      Wearing sexy mini skirts
                      And being self-reliant

                      ...Single Female Lawyer
                      Having lots of sex...[/sing]
                      "The DPRK is still in a state of war with the U.S. It's called a black out." - Che explaining why orbital nightime pictures of NK show few lights. Seriously.

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                      • #116
                        Anyways, lots of red flags here Imran.

                        1. You deserve someone who wants to be in a relationship with you, who will tell the other folks who would rather it was in the open rather then someone stringing you along here.

                        You should have stood up for yourself back then and said, I want to be in a real relationship.

                        2. She and T have been in some sense 'together' for years now. It's a good scam having him when she wants and you when she wants, and not having to commit or make a decision about either one of them. When you left, T won, and that was the end of that.

                        It goes back to the question, as to why didn't she want people to know she was with you.

                        Anyways, move on, find someone who really loves you and is willing to be a real girlfriend for you. Sorry it took 6! years to find this out, but best to just get started now.

                        Honestly, if you can, you should move. It would be healthier for you.
                        Scouse Git (2) La Fayette Adam Smith Solomwi and Loinburger will not be forgotten.
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                        • #117
                          No need to move, just make sure you crush her teeth with a hammer before incinerating the body in an industrial pottery kiln
                          "The DPRK is still in a state of war with the U.S. It's called a black out." - Che explaining why orbital nightime pictures of NK show few lights. Seriously.

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                          • #118
                            Won't work. Imran has too much machismo to make pottery.

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                            • #119
                              Even if you don't want to meet anybody Imran, you might consider coming to the Philippines with us in January. The place does a great job of chasing away the cobwebs.

                              Plus, it will give you a pleasant event in your future to focus on.
                              Long time member @ Apolyton
                              Civilization player since the dawn of time

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                              • #120
                                Won't work. Imran has too much machismo to make pottery.
                                Yeah, your right. Use a smelting furnace instead
                                "The DPRK is still in a state of war with the U.S. It's called a black out." - Che explaining why orbital nightime pictures of NK show few lights. Seriously.

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