Have you ever been unfaithful?

[Spec]

Originally posted by Lorizael
The only time this gets in the way is when I attempt to have a relationship with someone else. I've had two. Ostensibly, she's ruined both of them.

Wake up.

Spec.

[Lorizael]

Originally posted by Jon Miller
For someone with a very limited set of relationships (or so you tell us, less than 10 freinds/girlfreinds?), you sure have a lot of drama.

JM

My life is very concentrated. I have about four or five people I'm really close to and essentially nothing approaching a friend beyond that. Because of the... density... of my relationships, there tend to be more... err... collisions, if you will.

[KrazyHorse]

Look, Lori. She's messing with your burying of the bone. It's time to do something about that. Friends don't get between friends and *****. Only other ***** is allowed to get between you and *****. Either she's ***** or she isn't. If she isn't then she needs to stop acting like she is. If she is, then it's time to start working on getting some of it.

[Lorizael]

She probably has stopped. My ex is mostly reacting to old behavior. My bestfriend and I stopped being friends for about two months because she refused to accept the fact that things needed fixing in our friendship.

Specifically, she wouldn't accept that my girlfriend was more important than she was and she wouldn't admit that she was being jealous and possessive of me. After two months of being alone, she's realized she may have made a mistake, and she wants to do things over, but without all the previous nastiness.

What's not going to change, though, is the fact that her and I are incredibly close and don't want to be apart from each other. Whether or not that will cause trouble in future relations has yet to be seen; I'm single for the forseeable future.

[MOBIUS]

Sounds like you're married - in a relationship without the sex...

[KrazyHorse]

Being good friends with a girl is fine. Even being good friends with a girl you "used to" (i.e. still) want to **** can work out.

She just needs to start respecting reasonable limits your girlfriends want to put on your interactions.

My wife would be much less than pleased if I told her my female friend was sending me naked pics. And by "less than pleased" I mean "she would cut my nuts off with a pair of scissors while I slept".

[b etor]

gahhhh i am the only cheater! ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. lies.

[Jon Miller]

I have never been in a relationship, so really easy to have never been unfaithful.

JM

[KrazyHorse]

I have never cheated, but I have helped two girls cheat.

[Wezil]

Did you ever cheat on Your Lord JM?

[Cort Haus]

Originally posted by Lorizael
Specifically, she wouldn't accept that my girlfriend was more important than she was and she wouldn't admit that she was being jealous and possessive of me.

Wake up.

Anyone who thinks they are more important than the person you love is not worthy of being a 'best friend'. You've been taken to the cleaners by this b1tch.

Wake up.

[MOBIUS]

Originally posted by b etor
gahhhh i am the only cheater! ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. lies.

I think we'd already established that we all knew girls who'd cheated, apparently you're just proving the stereotype...

And at the tender age of 15 too...

[b etor]

mehh. actually none of my [girl] friends have cheated on their boyfriends. except one. who cheated with me. he still does not know. lol LOL.

[Arrian]

Yeah, real funny.

-Arrian

[Ben Kenobi]

The only time this gets in the way is when I attempt to have a relationship with someone else. I've had two. Ostensibly, she's ruined both of them.

Some friend eh?

Where I come from friends don't ruin another friend's relationship just because they can.

The way I see this going is two ways. If she is going to interfere with your relationships with other women, then she needs to be your girlfriend bottom line.

If she doesn't want to be your girlfriend, then you need to confront her Lori and tell her that you won't put up with her interference.

Take her naked pics and either do one of two things.

1. Tell her how fat and ugly she is getting.
2. Tell her how she's nothing compared to the real thing.

I'm telling you Lori, you want to shove those pics back in her face, especially if she has broken up two of your relationships in order to be with you.