Have you ever been unfaithful?

[Spec]

As in, cheating on your gf/bf.

I have never ever cheated...even though I had many many opportunities ...but still, I have never cheated. I would just feel cheap and wouldn't be able to look my gf in the eyes afterwards.

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[Lorizael]

My ex-girlfriend thinks I might as well have. By the technical term, I never have. In the biblical sense, however, perhaps.

[Spec]

Probably because my gfs keep me empty.

A guy is like a can of coke...Empty, there is no danger, but full, it could explode at anytime if shaken.

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[Spec]

Originally posted by Lorizael
My ex-girlfriend thinks I might as well have. By the technical term, I never have. In the biblical sense, however, perhaps.

Do you mind explaining?

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[Pekka]

Well, people who cheat are cheaters, the name comes from a very good reason. Cheaters can't be trusted. And trust is the only thing that has value that exists between two people. One people only has one valuable asset, and that is his word. So, when you're cheating, you're breaking those things, both of them, so you end up with nothing and deserve nothing. Too bad, you shouldn't have cheated, you human scum. This is what I say when people cry 'ohh but I felt so horny'. No. **** you. I feel like punching people in teh face right now but I won't. THat's called discipline, and it sets us apart from animals and uncivilized people.

[Lorizael]

I probably do mind.

Unsolicited advice to all Apolytoners: If you used to be in love with your bestfriend, and your girlfriend doesn't like your bestfriend because she thinks your bestfriend is jealous and possessive, it's probably not a good idea to let your bestfriend send you naked pictures of herself, even if the pictures are not supposed to be erotic or pornographic in any way. Also, voluntarily coming clean about this fact does not make it any better.

[Kidlicious]

No I haven't cheated.

Pekka is right. Cheaters are disloyal people. They lie also. You can't trust them for ****. If you catch someone in a lie you know they cheat too. Kick them to the curb quick.

[Kidlicious]

Oh if you happen to over hear someone having a conversation about you you can easily tell if they are a cheater. Since cheaters are disloyal they talk very different about you behind your back. You also might get this impression about someone if people tell you how they talk about you.

[Spec]

Originally posted by Pekka
And trust is the only thing that has value that exists between two people.

I disagree.

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[SlowwHand]

Way to be specific on WHY you disagree, numbnuts.

[Spec]

Do I really need to explain?

Lori or Arrian will sort this out for you.

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[Arrian]

No.

WE WERE ON A BREAK!



-Arrian

[Pekka]

No, please explain what other things exists between two or more people? Love? Love is just a subset of trust You only love people you can trust. If there is no trust, well, there is no real love, just obsession.

I don't think it's a coincidence, that people who have turned down opportunities to cheat, even when drunk and the offer was pretty seductive, I mean they usually are trustworthy people in general. I'd say on average people who don't cheat and it's a matter of principle to them and they follow it with no mistakes are usually more trustworthy than people who cheat. It's part of their character to follow the principle and not go weak in front of an opportunity. They think that they are a person who don't cheat, so they don't.

It's like people, when they are alone, would they do certain things if no one finds out? I'm not saying a person can't make a mistake. Some people might have cheated and are trustworthy, but just on average, I find the people who follow their principles much more trustworthy usually. THey rarely step out of the line. That's why you can trust them, when you know their principles. And that's why you can rely on them, and they can rely on you, and that's what makes you friends instead of buddies, and at the end of the day, the only thing you have is yourself and your friends (and family).

[Apocalypse]

I've never been unfaithful, but I have been with girls who have been.

A couple months ago I got a married woman pregnant even.

[Arrian]

Did you know she was married when you ****ed her?

-Arrian