Have you ever been unfaithful?

[Lorizael]

Originally posted by Kidicious
I don't think you are ready for a relationship, and shouldn't be in one.

I know, but I don't like to admit this to myself.

[Spec]

Bullshlt imo. Everyone is ready for a relationship...they just dont know it until they find the right one.

Spec.

[KrazyHorse]

Originally posted by Lorizael

I also know that she believes the only difference between her friendship with me and relationships she's had with people she's been in love with is that there's no sex with us.

I also know that she doesn't really know why she isn't actually attracted to me, except that she thinks she might fear a relationship with me for various reasons.

What a load of ****. Tell her to either **** you or stop sending you naked pics. Especially when you're ****ing some other girl.

[Dinner]

Originally posted by Arrian
But also cease being a doormat about certain things. Like the pictures...

Get mad about it, for goodness sake! She's taunting you, man!

-Arrian

It sounds like you are being a cuddle ***** right now. If you're fine being a cuddle ***** then that's one thing but if you want more then you have to make it happen.

BTW Spec is right. Just about everyone is ready for a relationship if the right kind comes along unless they have some sort of mental problem. Most of the time "I'm not ready for a relationship" boils down to "I don't want to have a relationship with you". Just move on and find a girl who does.

[Lorizael]

Monkeys. I don't agree with most of the advice given here. Not because it's bad advice, but because it's based off of incomplete information. This isn't my thread, though, so I'm not going to let loose with all the details. But I have no intention of forcing the issue with my bestfriend; we learned very recently that we cannot bear not being friends.

[Kidlicious]

Originally posted by Lorizael


I know, but I don't like to admit this to myself.

Being single can be great. Meditate on the things that are good in your life. There's good and bad in everyones life. Happy people focus on the good, while being realistic about the bad.

[KrazyHorse]

She's obviously enjoying having you slobbering over the nudie pics.

You've already lost a girl you were ****ing over this. You deserve some compensation. She doesn't have to be your girlfriend, but tell her you expect at least a drunk quickie every once in a while if she's going to bait you like that.

[Lorizael]

Originally posted by KrazyHorse
She's obviously enjoying having you slobbering over the nudie pics.

You've already lost a girl you were ****ing over this. You deserve some compensation. She doesn't have to be your girlfriend, but tell her you expect at least a drunk quickie every once in a while if she's going to bait you like that.

**** being a physicist; you should be a relationship counselor.

[Arrian]

[Dinner]

That would fly over well.

Still, if you don't ask you don't get.

[KrazyHorse]

Originally posted by Lorizael
Monkeys.

I'm proud to be a primate.

And when it comes to sex, we really are barely more than monkeys. Anybody who thinks differently is pretty much fooling themselves.

Stop being a ****ing beta male and take charge. Or at least come out even. She's showing you her swollen buttocks and then telling you you're not allowed to copulate with her. Maybe she'll let you groom her, but that's as close as you're getting. Close enough to smell that she's in heat, though.

Taking pictures of herself and sending them to you is a ****ing sexual signal. Is she afraid you'll forget what she looks like otherwise?

[LordShiva]

Can the mods please change the thread title to "Unsolicited relationship therapy for Lori?"

[MOBIUS]

Hear, hear KH!

[Lorizael]

Originally posted by KrazyHorse
Taking pictures of herself and sending them to you is a ****ing sexual signal. Is she afraid you'll forget what she looks like otherwise?

I disagree. She expects full and complete openness and honesty from me. She mistakenly believes that when she sends me such pictures, all I'm going to do is admire the lighting, comment on poses, etc.

[Kidlicious]