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**boann** · May 17, 2005, 20:00

well at least now you can have make up sex

**chequita guevara** · May 17, 2005, 20:02

We could, except she was up all night on the computer, and didn't get much sleep before work, so she's sleeping now. It's just as well. I didn't start dinner on time and she'd be upset with me for feeding her at 10PM (chuck roast braised in pinot noir and green onion and carrots).

**boann** · May 17, 2005, 20:06

a man that can cook a roast.. im very impressed

i think i might edit my male wish list and add that one

**chequita guevara** · May 17, 2005, 20:10

I can cook lots of things, ma'am. I love cooking, though not enough to make a profession of it. I was getting sick of plain old pot roast, and braising was a great solution. Plus, it makes cheap meat taste great.

**Ben Kenobi** · May 17, 2005, 20:24

One of the best threads in a long time, boann.

Thanks for starting it.

**chequita guevara** · May 17, 2005, 20:26

I suppose I could make more mashed potatoes.

**Spec** · May 17, 2005, 20:28

Originally posted by Japher
Aren't you about to get married?

Yes.

And?

**Ben Kenobi** · May 17, 2005, 20:31

I have had the chance over the last while to live alone, and while there are advantages in terms of privacy, I do get lonely.

It's hard, to repeat the earlier comment, to go on walks by yourself. Even if it is peaceful, it is solitary. Eating by yourself is not much fun either, and it gets hard to look at the empty side of the bed and wonder if there will ever be someone there.

I like boann's comment about it being the right person, it just can't be anyone that you want to be beside you, you should want to spend the rest of your life together. While it does get lonely, I do want to wait for that special person who wants that with me too.

**boann** · May 17, 2005, 20:48

Originally posted by Ben Kenobi
One of the best threads in a long time, boann.

Thanks for starting it.

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taking a walk or just spending the day alone is
very nice...

i still haven't gone out to eat alone or to the movies..
i usually take my daughter or my son and his girlfriend.
or just a friend...

it took me the longest to get used to sleeping alone.
after about 30 years of sleeping with someone its
quite an adjustment...
now i like it...
but i do share my bed with my dog yoshi and my daughter sleeps with me at least once a week.. i think she would sleep with me all the time if i let her.. but i don't...

well if i do have another relationship
im content to wait till i know its going to be a healthy one... no more psycho dudes for me.

**Jon Miller** · May 17, 2005, 22:36

I don't like to go out to eat along or to the movies alone

I will onyl do it if I am really hungry or there is a movie I really really (onel has been true once??) want to see

Jon Miller

**JohnT** · May 17, 2005, 22:41

What's so hard about cooking a roast?

**Jon Miller** · May 17, 2005, 22:42

I can't cook macaroni and cheese

Jon Miller

**St Leo** · May 17, 2005, 23:23

Originally posted by boann
wasn't there a song about that back in the 70's

Yep. YMCA by Village People. boann, you need a good ol' fashioned construction worker in denim overalls.

**boann** · May 17, 2005, 23:58

funny you should say that..
this is the last guy i dated
hes building his own house..
amazing isn't he.... 10 years younger than me
still writes me....my therapist calls him "the body"

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**MrFun** · May 18, 2005, 00:15

****!!

Give me his name and phone number.

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