Huggy-wuggie-touchie-feelie

[Boris Godunov]

Originally posted by Rogan Josh
I hate being touches by anyone - even my wife. I get nervous just hearing her walk up the stairs.

Oh man...that sounds really sad.

[KrazyHorse]

[Mercator]

I thought I was rather held-back as far as physical contact goes, but ****, I can shake hands just fine. And meeting a female family member is usually accompanied by 3 kisses on the cheeks.

[Urban Ranger]

Rogan, it sounds like you have problems

[FrustratedPoet]

I think he was being sarcastic, guys.

[Lorizael]

I don't particularly like touching or being touched by anyone. I always stay at the outskirts of social gatherings and usually shy away when people get too close.

Basically, there are four people I'm comfortable touching. These are my four closest friends. Two of them are male (one is a brother), two of them are female (and one of the females I'm romantically involved with), so there's really no distinction between the sexes for me.

I'm not even comfortable when my mother hugs me.

I guess I probably wouldn't mind an attractive person hugging me though.

Rogan - oddly enough - I feel the same way. Sex, though enjoyable, is really icky.

[Ben Kenobi]

I think I have, in the past, always foolled myself into believing I enjoyed it, but looking back it has always been somewhat unpleasant

Doesn't surprise me Rogan. I think you're telling the truth about yourself.

[Jaguar]

Rogan's post is wavering between sarcasm and truth.

Which is it?

[Spiffor]

Rogan, you'd better never meet me then. I am a shake-hands fanatic, to the point that I don't consider shaking hands to be touching someone else at all. I shake hands with acquaintances or unknown people indiscriminately, every time I say hello or goodbye.

I don't shake hands with female acquaintance, I rather kiss them on the cheek (4 times, that's the Breton way ! ). However, the German lifestyle took its toll on the subject, since the Germans simply don't greet them by kissing on the cheek. I've lost some kissing power

[Panag]

Originally posted by Rogan Josh
Sort of on the same subject, I have fairly recently realised that I don't like sex much. It is a dirty, messy business, with far too much hugging and stuff. yuck!

I think I have, in the past, always foolled myself into believing I enjoyed it, but looking back it has always been somewhat unpleasant.

The funny thing is, I am still attracted to women. I like to look at the skimpily clad young women in their tiny sumer dresses on summers days and that sort of thing. But I would rather just look, thanks very much.

hi ,

become a priest then , .....

maybe you just need some time with the right person , or the right state of mind , ......

maybe its just a mid live crisis , .....

have a nice day

[Rogan Josh]

Originally posted by Jaguar Warrior
Rogan's post is wavering between sarcasm and truth.

Which is it?

It wasn't sarcasm.

The first post was hyperbole - exageration for effect. I don't really get nervous around my wife ( ), by I still don't like being touched by her. (Although I would never tell her this, as she definitely likes to be hugged and things, and I dutifully do my duty).

The second post was truthful.

Spiffor: Here in Geneva, the tradition is to kiss 3 times. I do it, not to be impolite, but I don't like it.

UR: Why does this imply I have problems? I still love my wife very much and we have a great marriage. Why does someone who doesn't like physical contact much automatically have problems? That is like saying that someone who doesn't like baseball has problems. It would be a problem for a baseball player I suppose, but I am not a porn star so who cares?

[Panag]

Originally posted by Rogan Josh


It wasn't sarcasm.

The first post was hyperbole - exageration for effect. I don't really get nervous around my wife ( ), by I still don't like being touched by her. (Although I would never tell her this, as she definitely likes to be hugged and things, and I dutifully do my duty).

The second post was truthful.

Spiffor: Here in Geneva, the tradition is to kiss 3 times. I do it, not to be impolite, but I don't like it.

UR: Why does this imply I have problems? I still love my wife very much and we have a great marriage. Why does someone who doesn't like physical contact much automatically have problems? That is like saying that someone who doesn't like baseball has problems. It would be a problem for a baseball player I suppose, but I am not a porn star so who cares?

hi ,

you darn right you kiss everyone three times , with sars and all that nasty stuff going around , .....

in the end the only thing that matters is how you feel in your skin , ....

have a nice day

[Bereta_Eder]

yeah well i knew a guy like that and now he has horns (= got cheated by his wife)

em yes

[Bereta_Eder]

i know that via a friend i wasnt involved of course.

[Panag]

Originally posted by paiktis22
i know that via a friend i wasnt involved of course.

hi ,


of course , ......

have a nice day