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Where ever she is, I could use some balanced company.
For a strange reason I have a strong sense, that there will be hell to pay. I feel as if when she realises I won't stand for this, she seeks for revenge. I don't know why, I have not crossed her, but I hope I am just creeped about due to few beers.In da butt.
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well there you go, pekka. more often than not there's a reason why people do messed up things, whether it's related to abuse or some other bad childhood experience. it's a real shame of course, but you must think about yourself as well. you're a man with responsibilities, not a help centre for women with issues.
talk to your therapist if you must, but make the change in yourself. no more crazy women. have a one strike and out rule for future women: any crazy bull**** and that's it, goodbye."The Christian way has not been tried and found wanting, it has been found to be hard and left untried" - GK Chesterton.
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She has no grounds for it, but when she feels abandoned, which surely will feel worse for her than myself (I think), she must have some mechanism to feel better. Either trashing me, or going on some sort of self harming binge, be it sex, alcohol, whatnot. I am fully expecting the "I might hurt myself, Pekka save me" stuff.
Honestly, I don't know my reaction, because she got me hook line and sink. I know what I should do. I should call for help for her but from my previous experience, never do the right thing (contact their friends or parents) as that would put them on the defensive, and I get to be the cornerstone of all evil. Then again, I reckon she'd never actually hurt herself, it'd be but a ruse.
Or maybe she will just vanish. Let's hope for the last one. Though I'd most want her to be a friend. Not likely. I feel a bit ****ty talking about her like that in here right now.In da butt.
"Do not worry if others do not understand you. Instead worry if you do not understand others." - Confucius
THE UNDEFEATED SUPERCITIZEN w:4 t:2 l:1 (DON'T ASK!)
"God is dead" - Nietzsche. "Nietzsche is dead" - God.
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Originally posted by C0ckney View Postwell there you go, pekka. more often than not there's a reason why people do messed up things, whether it's related to abuse or some other bad childhood experience. it's a real shame of course, but you must think about yourself as well. you're a man with responsibilities, not a help centre for women with issues.
talk to your therapist if you must, but make the change in yourself. no more crazy women. have a one strike and out rule for future women: any crazy bull**** and that's it, goodbye.In da butt.
"Do not worry if others do not understand you. Instead worry if you do not understand others." - Confucius
THE UNDEFEATED SUPERCITIZEN w:4 t:2 l:1 (DON'T ASK!)
"God is dead" - Nietzsche. "Nietzsche is dead" - God.
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And that she will not apologise for taking care of her needsScouse Git (2) La Fayette Adam Smith Solomwi and Loinburger will not be forgotten.
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I don't think so but I'm not excluding it either.
Leaning towards the former.
Thing is, people who had a ****ed up childhood either become analgetic (**** them, kindly) or they become exceptionally empathetic.
So ben, will Pekka go to hell for engaging in extramarital affairs?
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Scouse Git (2) La Fayette Adam Smith Solomwi and Loinburger will not be forgotten.
"Remember the night we broke the windows in this old house? This is what I wished for..."
2015 APOLYTON FANTASY FOOTBALL CHAMPION!
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So ben, will Pekka go to hell for engaging in extramarital affairs?Scouse Git (2) La Fayette Adam Smith Solomwi and Loinburger will not be forgotten.
"Remember the night we broke the windows in this old house? This is what I wished for..."
2015 APOLYTON FANTASY FOOTBALL CHAMPION!
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