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"We confess our little faults to persuade people that we have no large ones." - François de La Rochefoucauld
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Yeah, well, what can you do. That's not even close to the most cringe-worthy sex thing to happen to me.Click here if you're having trouble sleeping.
"We confess our little faults to persuade people that we have no large ones." - François de La Rochefoucauld
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Originally posted by Lorizael View PostI honestly can't be sure exactly what they were doing in the shower. I didn't have my ear against the door or anything. It's quite possible they were just showering together because that's quicker than showering apart.
Yeah, I know, cold comfort.
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...I know precisely what the logistical requirements are for sex in that particular shower. And the new boyfriend is way more fit than I am.Click here if you're having trouble sleeping.
"We confess our little faults to persuade people that we have no large ones." - François de La Rochefoucauld
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Well, ****. Sorry, should have kept my mouth shut.
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No biggie.Click here if you're having trouble sleeping.
"We confess our little faults to persuade people that we have no large ones." - François de La Rochefoucauld
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Sigh. I really wish I were the type of person who could engage in casual sex. Alternatively, I wish I were in a fulfilling romantic relationship. But I'll take the sex.Click here if you're having trouble sleeping.
"We confess our little faults to persuade people that we have no large ones." - François de La Rochefoucauld
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I sometimes think I'm fortunate that I've never had an ex, strictly speaking. OTOH, I never had an ex because I spent about a decade of my life idolizing ridiculously inappropriate women and getting shot down over and over again on the rare occasion I tried to do more than sigh from a distance. There are times where, looking back, I wish I hadn't had my head up my butt and I could've had fun just getting to know girls. But I know full well that there would've been plenty of pain there too. It's just easier to think of the happy potential than the inevitable thorns and brambles that mix with it.
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I find it is a numbers game. Granted I haven't played that game much recently but back when I did it really was a 90% won't go any where so if you want to have a choice make a pass at as many women as possible, most will say no, but a certain percentage will say yes so just hit on enough of them.Try http://wordforge.net/index.php for discussion and debate.
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Originally posted by Sava View PostThis.Click here if you're having trouble sleeping.
"We confess our little faults to persuade people that we have no large ones." - François de La Rochefoucauld
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because it seems like this friendship is toxic to you? I went through something similar, but recounting the anecdote dom my phone isn't really feasible.I wasn't born with enough middle fingers.
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Originally posted by Lorizael View PostI really don't understand this attitude. I have a lot of trouble making friends. Why would I voluntarily give up one?
From what has been described of the situation, the friendship seems toxic. A bad friendship isn't worth having. But there's no need for a direct confrontation over this matter. If it were me, I'd just stop talking to the person. Respond if they reach out. Reciprocate friendship if it is offered (in a healthy way). But don't put up with bull****.
And yes, your ex fooling around with a new BF while you are around (or going to be expected) is bull****. It's abusive. It's passive aggressive bull****. It's toxic. It's unacceptable behavior AFAIC.
That's my take on it. But also, we're different people. And I'm outside the norm when it comes to socializing and whatnot.To us, it is the BEAST.
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