That's because you're not a woman you jackass. They think pretty much exactly the same as we do, they're as intelligent as males and have ambitions and aspirations just like males. How would you feel if someone told you that your entire role in life was to marry early, and sit at home popping out kids, cleaning and cooking for your partner?
Because personally, if society tried to tell me that was all I could have in life, I'd tell them to go **** themselves.
Yes, we realize all you want in life is your own little woman slave to stay at home and look after you.
Good, he's a total ***** who shouldn't be allowed anywhere near children.
Funnily enough telling children lies about how they can 'convert to straightness' is not showing tolerance.
Stop telling lies.
The answer is quite simply that you're having sex with a different partner.
If you'd ever actually had sex before, you'd realize quite how idiotic a thing you're asking is.
A condom is not a magical energy barrier keeping the man and woman separated. Apart from a moments annoyance putting the damn thing on, the experience is basically no different.
Please explain precisely how a woman using the contraceptive pill impairs anyones enjoyment of sex.
Then please explain how the use of a condom impairs anyones enjoyment of sex.
When people are waiting until their late twenties or thirties to get married, then yes the idea of not having sex until then is frankly ridiculous and unnatural.
You were talking about being with a wife and choosing to not have sex.
The sad part is that the most likely outcome of telling a woman that she can only have sex if she is willing to have a baby as a result, is that she'll just become frustrated and end up cheating on you.
If that's the worst lie a partner ever tells you, then you'll be a lucky man indeed.
You think that and you're wrong.
There was a very good reason why women's sufferage movements took off in the way they did
, and why since then women have been fighting tooth and nail for social equality.
I can only go off the image you portray here, which is of a naive misogynist.
Sorry but I'm not sure of the relevance of some random woman saying something silly one time.
Nope, instead I've been in long term relationships with several women over the years, living together exactly as if we were married.
So yes, I feel qualified to talk about this stuff.
The difficulty is something that seems much bigger the first time, because you're not used to the experience of compromising with someone who becomes such a huge and integral part of your day to day life. It becomes a lot easier once you get used to it.
No, I'm saying that creating stupid version of temptation is utterly idiotic and damaging.
If you're married you may feel the temptation to cheat with another woman. That is a temptation, and one that if you give into it can destroy your relationship. not having sex with your own wife because you're unwilling to use contraception is a temptation of your own creation, and that would harm nothing if you just stopped being ridiculous about it.
You really need to stop building up this fairy tale marriage thing in your head, or else it's just going to end up disappointing you.
Finding a person who is completely compatible with you as a person is hard enough, but finding one who also happens to agree with the multitude of thick red lines you're setting down is going to make it almost impossible to ever find a partner.
It's been brought up many times before, but 99% of Catholic women have used contraception at some point in their lives. So not only are you already limiting your potential dating pool to Catholics, but then you're also intending to write off 99% of them as well. You really think that's a smart plan?
Two - yes, limiting it to Catholics is hard. Limiting it to faithful Catholics is even harder. Sometimes the dude actually has pocket aces. I encourage you to turn into the next episode of, "As the Kenobi turns".
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