Originally posted by kentonio
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NOw Ben, I actually have a fair number of ups and downs. My wife and I can displease each other and it doesn't change the fact that we are in this for the long run. But if we grew to actually despise each other, why stay together?
I do think that some people jump to divorce too quickly and easily rather than trying to work on their problems
But Ben---if your chosen after a few years , confessed a prior abortion and also told you that she had grown to hate your hypocritical judgemental bigoted etc etc etc self---- you would want to stay linked to her for the rest of your life-- even if it meant
-- no sex for the rest of your days
-- no children for you--
--she refused to try to work on anything and after a time she began iving with some other guy
What marriage exactly are you maintaining ?
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