I'm puzzled by the random little things about women

[Docfeelgood]

Like I said, you're overthinking this. You need to actually qualify a woman as an individual person with individual tastes, ideas and preferences before you do unsolicited **** you think is nice.

I use to think this way when I was a young man.

[Al B. Sure!]

Like I said, you're overthinking this. You need to actually qualify a woman as an individual person with individual tastes, ideas and preferences before you do unsolicited **** you think is nice.

Or a chick like the prostitute who told me exactly what she wanted all the time (car, pay her insurance, pay her cellphone bill, give her my credit card, etc.)... had I been aloof I wouldn't have been in that position.

[Docfeelgood]

Or a chick like the prostitute who told me exactly what she wanted all the time (car, pay her insurance, pay her cellphone bill, give her my credit card, etc.)... had I been aloof I wouldn't have been in that position.

Don't blame her she is just a women

[Docfeelgood]

You live, you learn from your mistakes. We get our experience from the mistakes we make. Now you know from experience when your being played. I bet it won't happen a second time to you.

[C0ckney]

26years old? that is a young man to me. ( no disrespect ) I am twice that age. Got a long way to go when your that young.
Besides, after more than 10 years with the same women you will start looking again.

i'm sure that's an enormous comfort to albie...

[MRT144]

No you just do the aloof thing unintentionally and naturally so you don't consider it being aloof.

I think I know myself better than you know me. I never have once in my life acted like I was disinterested in a woman unless I genuinely was. I have always been honest about my intentions up front. I have never picked anyone up at a bar (except in Portland when I needed a place to stay for the night). Most importantly I have never thought about meta mind games involving fronting as someone I am not for some ulterior motive. Because in the end, do I want to be with someone who has misconceptions about who I am?

What's your end game Al? Get stank on your hang low?

[Docfeelgood]

i'm sure that's an enormous comfort to albie...

and you

[MRT144]

Or a chick like the prostitute who told me exactly what she wanted all the time (car, pay her insurance, pay her cellphone bill, give her my credit card, etc.)... had I been aloof I wouldn't have been in that position.

you don't need to be disinterest to have a backbone.

[C0ckney]

Or a chick like the prostitute who told me exactly what she wanted all the time (car, pay her insurance, pay her cellphone bill, give her my credit card, etc.)... had I been aloof I wouldn't have been in that position.

no this is not about being aloof, it's about having a backbone like mrt said.

[Docfeelgood]

I think I know myself better than you know me. I never have once in my life acted like I was disinterested in a woman unless I genuinely was. I have always been honest about my intentions up front. I have never picked anyone up at a bar (except in Portland when I needed a place to stay for the night). Most importantly I have never thought about meta mind games involving fronting as someone I am not for some ulterior motive. Because in the end, do I want to be with someone who has misconceptions about who I am?

What's your end game Al? Get stank on your hang low?

Life is a game. marriage is a game, love is a game. if they get a ring on your finger they win. game over. you don't see this?
you become one less male on the hunt for some p*ussy.

[C0ckney]

and you

errr, what?

i'm probably not what you'd call successful but i've had more than my share of p*ssy along the way.

[Docfeelgood]

errr, what?

i'm probably not what you'd call successful but i've had more than my share of p*ssy along the way.

but, have you found the one?

[Al B. Sure!]

Okay another thing is the target... if she's well above average then the games might be more appropriate.

You can probably get away with being straight to an average woman. No disrespect intended. Just realistic appraisal.

[MRT144]

Life is a game. marriage is a game, love is a game. if they get a ring on your finger they win. game over. you don't see this?
you become one less male on the hunt for some p*ussy.

Where has that attitude gotten you in life?

[Docfeelgood]

Okay another thing is the target... if she's well above average then the games might be more appropriate.

You can probably get away with being straight to an average woman. No disrespect intended. Just realistic appraisal.

Do you want a women who has a lot of money and you feel unhappy with? or the town slut who makes you happy?
Don't set you expectations too high.