I'm puzzled by the random little things about women

[Al B. Sure!]

So the conclusion you've arrived at is you need to put on a show to trick them into following up with you so you can sustain something for an indefinite amount of time while continuing to put on a show?

Ah yes, this is so much easier than being yourself but having a backbone and actually qualifying women when you meet them.

What does qualifying women mean?

And no, even the minimal interest would backfire horribly...

dude, real talk, even just going up to a woman and saying ****... what would you say... "Would you like to meet up tomorrow for lunch?" would have her giving you a look and saying "No thanks" while awkwardly backing away.

[MRT144]

i don't buy this whole 'one' thing. i mean it's a lovely romantic idea, but the idea that there's just one person for everyone on this earth is just silly. it's two people who are right for each other in a particular situation. i've had relationships that were amazing and then they finished for one reason or another, then gone on to have another amazing relationship. i've been in love before, i'm in love with my current g/f, maybe it will last forever, or not as the case may be.

I agree with this. I think a lot of long term success in a relationship is how situationly congruent you are with the other person and how that changes over time.

[MRT144]

What does qualifying women mean?

And no, even the minimal interest would backfire horribly...

dude, real talk, even just going up to a woman and saying ****... what would you say... "Would you like to meet up tomorrow for lunch?" would have her giving you a look and saying "No thanks" while awkwardly backing away.

Qualifying is a the process of determining her interests and disinterests and finding a common ground between you and her.

Do you even know why you like the women you like?

[Docfeelgood]

Ever notice that all the pressure is on the man? why? women cannot handle rejection. Use that to your advantage! If you see it as a game then you will understand the tactics. I use to go to clubs and see who was getting all the attention. I would not show interest and it would drive her nuts. Guess who would be the one with her? Because she could not handle the rejection. It is a game.

[Docfeelgood]

I agree with this. I think a lot of long term success in a relationship is how situationly congruent you are with the other person and how that changes over time.

Do you use these big words when talking to a women?

[Docfeelgood]

Albi you should take a class in psychology.

[C0ckney]

I agree with this. I think a lot of long term success in a relationship is how situationly congruent you are with the other person and how that changes over time.

yeah absolutely. something that is great for a time can turn sour as people change and develop. this happens more when people are younger for obvious reasons.

[Al B. Sure!]

Qualifying is a the process of determining her interests and disinterests and finding a common ground between you and her.

Do you even know why you like the women you like?

Look good, I guess. And are not a whore.

I mean yeah things like intelligence, some sort of artistic talent, being nice, etc. matter but for the majority of women (and men, for that matter) it's all pretty much the same...

I mean a high level of intelligence would be ideal but would I turn down mere above average intelligence? Should I?

I'm at the point where I can't be too choosy, man.

Maybe one day I will be good enough (maybe when I'm racking in the big bucks) to pull an attorney who looks like a model and who also is an amateur singer or something else but right now... beggars can't be choosers.

I just need experience.


Oh but they still need to look good. Sorry but I'm not going for any ducks.

[MRT144]

Do you use these big words when talking to a women?

Yeah. Some women like it.

[Docfeelgood]

Look good, I guess. And are not a whore.

I mean yeah things like intelligence, some sort of artistic talent, being nice, etc. matter but for the majority of women (and men, for that matter) it's all pretty much the same...

I mean a high level of intelligence would be ideal but would I turn down mere above average intelligence? Should I?

I'm at the point where I can't be too choosy, man.

Maybe one day I will be good enough (maybe when I'm racking in the big bucks) to pull an attorney who looks like a model and who also is an amateur singer or something else but right now... beggars can't be choosers.

I just need experience.


Oh but they still need to look good. Sorry but I'm not going for any ducks.

[Al B. Sure!]

What?

I'm not dating an ugly woman. What sense does that make? I won't like looking at her and it sets a bad precedence... It's a good tool for other women to see you dating or dated an attractive woman because it tells them where you stand. If they see you dating an ugly chick, bah... they'll think you're a loser.

[Docfeelgood]

What?

I'm not dating an ugly woman. What sense does that make? I won't like looking at her and it sets a bad precedence... It's a good tool for other women to see you dating or dated an attractive woman because it tells them where you stand. If they see you dating an ugly chick, bah... they'll think you're a loser.

Don't set your expectations too high. does it really matter what she looks like if she makes you happy? True love goes beyond beauty.

[Docfeelgood]

What?

I'm not dating an ugly woman. What sense does that make? I won't like looking at her and it sets a bad precedence... It's a good tool for other women to see you dating or dated an attractive woman because it tells them where you stand. If they see you dating an ugly chick, bah... they'll think you're a loser.

you want the one or just p*ssy? you can pay for p*ssy. I am guessing that you just want to impress other women.

[Docfeelgood]

What do you want?
BTW
what does she look like in the dark?
Only weirdos fukc with the lights on.

[MRT144]

Look good, I guess. And are not a whore.

I mean yeah things like intelligence, some sort of artistic talent, being nice, etc. matter but for the majority of women (and men, for that matter) it's all pretty much the same...

I mean a high level of intelligence would be ideal but would I turn down mere above average intelligence? Should I?

I'm at the point where I can't be too choosy, man.

Maybe one day I will be good enough (maybe when I'm racking in the big bucks) to pull an attorney who looks like a model and who also is an amateur singer or something else but right now... beggars can't be choosers.

I just need experience.


Oh but they still need to look good. Sorry but I'm not going for any ducks.

You don't offer your ideal companion anything. You criminal!

How do you usually go about trying to relate to women? What makes you unique? What keen insights do you have into the world? Why should people be interested in who you are.