Video on how to get a woman?

[aneeshm]

"Game" is such ****ing nonsense outside a confident attitude and not being a complete social ****ing reject.

Grow the **** up, stop being scared of women or writing scripts for yourself. Treat them generally like people you want to be friends with, engage in a bit of flirtatiousness and watch how quickly most of them will have sex with you.

Agreed. It seems obvious once you "get" it.

What I posted about "game" is for those who, for some reason, don't.

[Meticulous Man]

Good advice.

Yep, a true Gamer recognizes that number 3 is superfluous

[Al B. Sure!]

The thing is that I already usually do that. I just am friendly with some flirting and I make a conscious effort to try to talk to more than one woman simultaneously. I actually sometimes wonder if what if more than 1 woman gets interested in me, but obviously since I can't even get 1 woman, I'm not going to have a situation where 2 that I am talking to like me. But yeah I understand the oneitis thing but I've made a conscious effort to play the odds and talk to multiple simultaneously (it helps because if I call one on Monday, I don't feel the urge to call her again on Tuesday because I can call the other chick on Tuesday and then a third chick on Wednesday and then by the time I get back to the first chick, it's HER calling me on Thursday).

Maybe this is something you guys don't understand. Let me take a step back and explain everything.

I have difficulty meeting women now because well I don't go out with friends or alone or anything like that to meet women but up until this year, I worked at a University and would see thousands of females a day. I would interact with a few dozen at a time in different ways whether interested in them or not... I would try to maintain 2-4 females at all times being targets. I would be friendly but flirtatious... doing all the little techniques with very casual kino (my favorite was the coming up from behind waist or shoulder touch). Plus, since I was a manager, it never looked inappropriate or desperate for me to talk to these girls since I was always watching the floor and moving... and again, since I was the manager, I could always extricate myself at all times (which also probably showed me as important to the operation). I would take advantage of that and about half the time not even stay and chat but just do a quick kino walk-by, smile, say hello and her name, and keep on moving like I was busy. Also, this gave me so many openings because well, I was the manager so it made sense for me to just walk up and talk to someone. There was nothing awkward about it either on the female perspective or mine (it made things A LOT easier because I could always fall into the just providing customer service thing)

Now, I also had my employees helping me. My 20-year old guys would flirt with females and give me openings and like my utility guys in the dining areas would themselves be flirting with girls while they eat and would also act like good wingmen... telling me which chicks told them that the manager is cute, has a nice ass, etc., them saying positive things about me (like, he's going into the Marines, etc.). One in particular was actual quite good at it and would do some interesting tactics that would expose female interest very easily (make them blush, etc.)

Now, as I said earlier, it was rare to not get these girls' numbers. I very often got them to reciprocate physical contact, got them twirling their hair, moving closer to me, etc. etc. It was a perfect situation because I couldn't look desperate because I was just at my job working. I even had a few girls approach me!

The fact is, I am in shape (and to note, I am not skinny in shape. I weigh 204 lbs so I'm built like an athlete), I'm groomed, dress well, etc. Maybe my face is a bit jacked up but overall, I would get a lot of attention and eye contact from a lot of females. Sometimes it would be awkward because I had dozens of females really into my ass of all things (like talking to a group, one would expose her friend's interest by saying something like 'oh don't get quiet now. you were just talking about his butt!', etc.; stuff like that happened many times). And since I worked out at the University, people would see me in my off-hours as well and then my legs in my basketball shorts would get a lot of attention for some reason. It sounds cocky but frankly, I think physically I'm the **** and am very desirable to these women (my face notwithstanding).

The problem is this happens consistently... A week later, all interest vanishes and half the time they want nothing to do with me at all.

That has been my dilemma.

Now, I also realize that my old job made everything easy for me and I really don't have the tools to meet complete strangers in some other context and patiently make them play into my hands like I could at my job (with a casual, non-explicitly game environment where I could look more natural and have employees as wingmen). So now, I have a new problem because I don't know how to meet women or play the game in a different environment.

But the old problem still remains... What did I do wrong that caused interested women to shun me after a few phone calls or a date, etc.?

[Gibsie]

Again not an expert on this stuff but I'm fairly sure you're not meant to approach and touch girls from behind. This is because it's kinda off-putting, surprising (not in a good way) and a little creepy. Perhaps it's that kind of disconnect, the simple failure to realise what is or isn't acceptable behaviour, that's stopped the girls from appreciating your pursuit?

[Al B. Sure!]

Gibs:

Maybe but they give me their number and reciprocate despite that if I'm doing that wrong.

[ricketyclik]

The problem is this happens consistently... A week later, all interest vanishes and half the time they want nothing to do with me at all.

I'm telling you, it's because you're a gay Nazi.

[Al B. Sure!]

Everyone's clear that was a cut and paste job from Evan von Christoph/Thorn, right?

[ricketyclik]

No. There are no indications of such that I can see.

[ricketyclik]

However, if that's the case, then I apologise for my misunderstanding and retract.

[Al B. Sure!]

newbies

[ricketyclik]

Not only have I not read all of the posts in the history of Apolyton, I don't read the majority that are posted now.

There are quotation indicators you know.

[KrazyHorse]

It was funnier without them. Duh.

[OzzyKP]

But the old problem still remains... What did I do wrong that caused interested women to shun me after a few phone calls or a date, etc.?

I've already given you the answer. Stop repeating the question.

[Al B. Sure!]

That I need to be more confident and attract different girls? How can I attract different girls? They're all just typical college girls and they all weren't the same. How can I know they're different from what I used to like?

[Dinner]

This is the thread which keeps on giving.