Video on how to get a woman?

[DaShi]

For once, have respect for yourself and women and don't post it here.

[Heraclitus]

Heraclitus:

No she was higher than a 6... at least judging from her job and her pictures.

What was her job?

Remember 7 and 8s can be pretty good looking. Also at least post what you wrote, I'm flying blind here.

[KrazyHorse]

"Game" is such ****ing nonsense outside a confident attitude and not being a complete social ****ing reject.

Grow the **** up, stop being scared of women or writing scripts for yourself. Treat them generally like people you want to be friends with, engage in a bit of flirtatiousness and watch how quickly most of them will have sex with you.

Most women aren't ****ing prudes OR prostitutes by the time they get to their mid-20s. They're just normal people who want to have some fun and get close to someone.

This is ****ing getting pathetic.

[Al B. Sure!]

Treat them generally like people you want to be friends with, engage in a bit of flirtatiousness and watch how quickly most of them will have sex with you.

Maybe my means of treating a friend or my idea of flirting are both wrong but I attempt this with disastrous consequences.

[Asher]

"Game" is such ****ing nonsense outside a confident attitude and not being a complete social ****ing reject.

Grow the **** up, stop being scared of women or writing scripts for yourself. Treat them generally like people you want to be friends with, engage in a bit of flirtatiousness and watch how quickly most of them will have sex with you.

Most women aren't ****ing prudes OR prostitutes by the time they get to their mid-20s. They're just normal people who want to have some fun and get close to someone.

This is ****ing getting pathetic.

[Al B. Sure!]

I watched AVISO's video with the kiss close. that was crazy. I wouldn't attempt the kiss (though it was so effective) but his brazen-ness approaching her is interesting. Instead of finding something to comment on, he just flat out says he thinks she's cute and wants to talk to her.

Now how can you turn this into a relationship though? Thats where I'm having the biggest problem. Not the initial meet (although that is now a problem since I no longer work on campus), but the close close to get a relationship.

[Meticulous Man]

"Game" is such ****ing nonsense outside a confident attitude and not being a complete social ****ing reject.

Grow the **** up, stop being scared of women or writing scripts for yourself. Treat them generally like people you want to be friends with, engage in a bit of flirtatiousness and watch how quickly most of them will have sex with you.

Well that's exactly what "game" is supposed to teach you to do! If it comes to you naturally then you don't need to study "game". But there are men who actually have no idea how to approach / attract women.

[Al B. Sure!]

I agree. That took some learning... in middle school, I was the love letter in her desk type. Creepy as ****.

[DaShi]

[Jon Miller]

I watched AVISO's video with the kiss close. that was crazy. I wouldn't attempt the kiss (though it was so effective) but his brazen-ness approaching her is interesting. Instead of finding something to comment on, he just flat out says he thinks she's cute and wants to talk to her.

Now how can you turn this into a relationship though? Thats where I'm having the biggest problem. Not the initial meet (although that is now a problem since I no longer work on campus), but the close close to get a relationship.

Build up attraction and affection, and soon both of you will want to be in a relationship. It takes time spent, nice things done, acting out of love and trust. If you go and hide, than you had better hope the other reaches out because you are not encouraging it. Note also that it is important that she returns it, as you well know.

May I ask when you were hurt? I mean by your Ex. From the sound of things you are still hurting, and I would suggest that you don't look or worry about it for a year or two until your emotions are no longer so conflicted.

Jon

[Heraclitus]

The solution to both hearthache and oneitis is FTOW.

[Al B. Sure!]

FTOW?

[Heraclitus]

FTOW?

Find/**** ten other women, then see how you feel about that one special snowflake.

[lightblue]

Interesting thread...

Couple of hints (and I used to be just like you 10 years ago):

1/ Don't go into talking to a girl thinking "I fancy you", "I want to sleep with you", "I want to be with you". Desperation has a stink. Just chat, have friendly conversation, a bit of teasing and flirting after some time etc.

2/ Don't fixate on one girl and get your emotions stomped on time after time. Someone not in to you? No worries, plenty of fish in the sea and if she can't see what she's missing that's her mistake. My friend called it the "buckshot" approach. A bit of self-confidence helps, believe that you're not just some loser that would be lucky to get a decent girl.

3/ Don't stare at her tits when you're talking to her..

[Heraclitus]

Interesting thread...

Couple of hints (and I used to be just like you 10 years ago):

1/ Don't go into talking to a girl thinking "I fancy you", "I want to sleep with you", "I want to be with you". Desperation has a stink. Just chat, have friendly conversation, a bit of teasing and flirting after some time etc.

2/ Don't fixate on one girl and get your emotions stomped on time after time. Someone not in to you? No worries, plenty of fish in the sea and if she can't see what she's missing that's her mistake. My friend called it the "buckshot" approach. A bit of self-confidence helps, believe that you're not just some loser that would be lucky to get a decent girl.

Good advice.