calling out an ex's name in a moment of passion

[MRT144]

i dont know, i dont think about my ex more than once a month if that. it was totally out of no where and unexpected and i feel so bad about it

[Agathon]

I guess you are still in lust with your ex.

[Ben Kenobi]

Saying the wrong name at the worst possible time just shows that who's on MRT's mind all that time.

A wise man told me that it doesn't pay to reveal your arousal fantasies to your partner. No good can come from it.

I would be very surprised if his girlfriend didn't do the same thing, but just kept quiet.

[Dinner]

I suggest you spend more time groveling to your girl and less time talking to us for a while.

[Asher]

Originally posted by Oerdin
I suggest you spend more time groveling to your girl and less time talking to us for a while.

Never put the woman in the position of power in the relationship, lest you want to watch Hugh Grant movies exclusively for the rest of your life.

[MRT144]

Originally posted by Agathon
I guess you are still in lust with your ex.

not really. she wasnt good in bed, didnt even want to have sex, and wasnt half as good looking as dacia

[Dinner]

Originally posted by Asher

Never put the woman in the position of power in the relationship, lest you want to watch Hugh Grant movies exclusively for the rest of your life.

As a general rule, yes, but he has a huge debt to make up. That means he's going to have to break with convention.

[Fake Boris]

[Snowflake]

Originally posted by Mrs. Tuberski
Im sure that there a few women like my self that dont really care for the jewlery and in that case yes asher is right a cracker jack ring would do. Id prefer honesty and the admitance of the mistake.
If it happened to me, a day or so of ass kissing wouldnt hurt either.

If it were to happen to me, I'd tease him everyday, till he BEG me to stop, and BEG to buy expensive jewlry for me so that I would stop talking about it.

And I'd say, "No, don't want jewels. I want Christina."

Seriously, there are so many occasions that we could make all kinds of mistakes in life. Buying jewlries for her may stuff her mouth for now, but it doesn't really erase the feeling from her heart. And you'd be worried that you'd do it again, and wouldn't be able to focus on the real thing when you make love to her again. It will have longer lasting effect than what you think.

The only way out of this, is for both of you to learn to treat things like this more light-heartedly. If you trust each other's love, then this is not going to mean anything. No matter what it is, habit, or lingering love, or whatever, if she chooses to stay with you, she has to accept its existence, and find a way to treat it so that she does not feel hurt whenever it happens.

The way to start this, is to treat her like a queen for a day or two after your guilty confession, and go all the way so that it is very exaggerated. Make breakfast for her. Massage her back when she is sitting. Sweet talk her. Using all kind of occassions to tell her how gorergeous she is. And when she shows if only a slight sign of easing off, go off with the joke route. "Come on baby don't be mad any more. yadayada more sweet talks. I promise the next time when we go to bed, I will never call Emmie's name again, I mean Christina...." She'd be MAD again, and ask who is Emmie. And you'd get your chance of playing humor. Exaggerately brag about how irrisistably attractive her hubby/bf is to other girls, but he'd only kneel before her because none is as lovely as her, etc.

[Alexander's Horse]

just don't call out for any close blood relatives and you should be fine

[KrazyHorse]

This is why I always hold back when I'm about to say a name while ****ing and double-check that it's the right one before going through with it.

I'd actually be more afraid of calling her by some random girl's name than any of my ex-girlfriends' (who I grew to loathe for the most part).

Not that I'd even be thinking of the girl in question. I'm very bad with names and tend to say the wrong ones in many situations. I'm especially bad with women's names. I probably only have one space in my mind for every woman's name that I know or something...

[KrazyHorse]

Originally posted by MRT144


not really. she wasnt good in bed, didnt even want to have sex, and wasnt half as good looking as dacia

Explain that to her. Are you bad with names in general? That'll make things easier. Next time call out the name of some random really ugly girl you both know. Keep it up with random names every once in a while. Should convince her you're just scatterbrained.

[Ben Kenobi]

Thanks KH. That's good advice for me too. I'm terrible with names.

[Snowflake]

"Oh MRT you are sick! Fansying that ugly Doria chick! Get away from me!" - dacia

Caution, don't over do it.

[Agathon]

Women shouldn't have names. Men don't care anyway. "Hey you" is good enough for us.