calling out an ex's name in a moment of passion

[Mrs. Tuberski]

I understand in the heat of a discussion i have called tuberski, my ex husbands name. It just habit. Cause Scott (tuberski) sounds nothing like Eddie.
Never happened during sex though

[Asher]

Originally posted by Dissident
you really don't understand women do you? It's the thought that counts, not the actual jewelry.

If that was true, a cracker-jack ring would do.

And I do understand women, it's why I know never to marry one.

[Asher]

Originally posted by Drogue
True, but making up for doing something stupid, showing you're sorry, is a good way to fix a problem. Not a relationship, but a problem.

If I got drunk and was sick on my girlfriends carpet, cleaning it up and buying her a present to say sorry would go some way to fixing the problem.

No relationship worth being in can be fixed with jewelry, but when you've done something stupid, it can make up for that.

I think it's the easy way out, and a true, sentimental gift/action shows more. And is cheaper.

[Mrs. Tuberski]

Im sure that there a few women like my self that dont really care for the jewlery and in that case yes asher is right a cracker jack ring would do. Id prefer honesty and the admitance of the mistake.
If it happened to me, a day or so of ass kissing wouldnt hurt either.

[Lul Thyme]

Re: Re: calling out an ex's name in a moment of passion

Originally posted by Dissident


forgive me if I don't believe your story.

For the life of me, I can't figure out how people do this. But I don't have much experience on the subject, so maybe I shouldn't comment.

How hard is it to say the right name?

I have to step in and admit this has ALMOST happened to me a couple of times, like having the other name on tip of the tongue, and recovering...
Think how many times you get the wrong name in normal conversation (happens to me and ppl around me a lot) by mistake or whatever...

[Drogue]

Originally posted by Asher
If that was true, a cracker-jack ring would do.

There's a different thought between a cracker-jack ring and an expensive one. An expensive piece of jewelry, especially if she knows you're short of money, says that you're willing to give up something you want for her. A cheap ring says you're willing to give up something small.

[Lul Thyme]

Re: Re: Re: calling out an ex's name in a moment of passion

damn i always do this damn mistake
DP

[Asher]

Originally posted by Drogue
There's a different thought between a cracker-jack ring and an expensive one. An expensive piece of jewelry, especially if she knows you're short of money, says that you're willing to give up something you want for her. A cheap ring says you're willing to give up something small.

To me it says you're trying to buy your way out of it.

[Drogue]

Originally posted by Asher
I think it's the easy way out, and a true, sentimental gift/action shows more. And is cheaper.

I agree, doing something is better, but an expensive piece of jewelry is a sentimental gift. The sentiment being that you'd give up a lot to make her happy, to show you're sorry. Even in the bible people gave money away to show penance, similarly it works here.

Originally posted by Mrs. Tuberski
Im sure that there a few women like my self that dont really care for the jewlery and in that case yes asher is right a cracker jack ring would do. Id prefer honesty and the admitance of the mistake.
If it happened to me, a day or so of ass kissing wouldnt hurt either.

True, but the admittance of a mistake may not be enough. An admittance plus something to show that she means a lot to you, something that will make her smile, would go even further.

[Dis]

Originally posted by Asher

To me it says you're trying to buy your way out of it.

worked for Kobe Bryant

[Boris Godunov]

I once called out Fez's name in a passionate moment.

But once I passed that bm, everything was smooth sailing!

[chequita guevara]

Originally posted by MRT144
japher, my girlfriend IS hot. i dont need to think about anyone else.

There's a joke that goes like this:

Show me a super hot woman and I'll show you some guy who's tired of f*cking her.

[Dis]

Originally posted by Boris Godunov
I once called out Fez's name in a passionate moment.

But once I passed that bm, everything was smooth sailing!

so what you are saying is you think of Fez when you have something sliding around in that region of your body. Which means you want Fez sliding around in that area of your body. That's the meaning I get from that statement.

[Drogue]

Originally posted by Asher
To me it says you're trying to buy your way out of it.

Yes, it depends on the sentiment. I think a cracker-jack ring is saying you're trying to buy your way out of it - you've given up little and it doesn't show you're sorry at all. However working overtime for a month or foregoing one of your luxuries in order to get something for her shows that you're sorry. An expensive ring when you're loaded beyond belief says nothing, but if you're not, it says a lot, and shows you're willing to give up something you want to make her happy. It's the sentiment, not the present that counts, but the sentiment is different depending on what the present is.

[Dis]

I recommend against diamond rings though. Because of the way diamond trade is in Africa, I would never buy a woman a diamond ring, even for wedding/engagement ring.

So I recommend against buying diamonds. If you are, buy the diamonds from russia that are manufactured. I have heard the russians have come up with a way to manufacture diamonds that can not be identified as fake.