Making the friend-to-girlfriend conversion

[Zero]

make her owe you one somehow, but instead of wasting the debt ona blow job like you do usually with others, force her that you must buy her dinner.

[Urban Ranger]

Originally posted by Azazel
All in all, I think the moral of this thread, like many other apolyton-women-tips thread is: " You've gotta have balls if you want to ****."

Not balls, gonads.

[orange]

Originally posted by MattyBoy


I don't mean to offend, but that's the lamest reason I've heard in a long time: "I love you more than life itself, but I'm a bit busy, so maybe we should just be friends"

um...I think switch is still a teen. Love you more than life itself? where did he say that?

[Zero]

Originally posted by Urban Ranger


Sometimes stammering works wonders.

Me: "Um, *cough*, ah, your bra strap is showing."
SO (not my SO then): "Really? Which side?"
Me (points)
SO (does some quick fixing): "Thanks. How long have you noticed it."
Me (turns red): "Hm, ah, ur, eh, um...."
SO (smiles): "That's okay, don't blow your brains" (snuggles up to me) "I like honesty."

If they're already interested in you. It doesnt matter if you stutter incoherent bullsh!+ infront of them when u ask them out. They'll say its cute.

honesty is the best policy still, but I think I'm too honest when it comes to revealing my thoguhts and intentions to girls.

[Kramerman]

Originally posted by Felch X
Well, does she know how you feel?

I made this same conversion at that age, and it was tight. We were friends, we went out for a bit, and then we went back to being friends. Things were a little tense since I ditched her at the homecoming dance, but we all got over that stoned mishap.

Im in a similar situation, as far as being friends, then kinda going out, then being friends again. It kinda bums me out tho, i really like her...

[Kramerman]

Originally posted by DuncanK
It can't be done. The simple fact that you are her friend means that she is no longer attracted to you. You should have been more open with her from the beginning and let her know how you felt.

I'm afraid this might be true, from my experience *sigh*

when she gave me the 'lets just be friends' spiel, she said that she didnt know why she didnt like me anymore, appearntly her feelings had just 'faded'. I think she just wasnt attracted to me anymore, tho i dunno how you can be attracted to someone, and then seemingly abruptly, not.

I do enjoy her friendship now very much, but i miss soooo much holding her in my arms... i just got the greatest feeling... *sigh*

[Zero]

Originally posted by Kramerman


I'm afraid this might be true, from my experience *sigh*

when she gave me the 'lets just be friends' spiel, she said that she didnt know why she didnt like me anymore, appearntly her feelings had just 'faded'. I think she just wasnt attracted to me anymore, tho i dunno how you can be attracted to someone, and then seemingly abruptly, not.

I do enjoy her friendship now very much, but i miss soooo much holding her in my arms... i just got the greatest feeling... *sigh*

I was friends with all my girlfriend before we started seriously dating and f**king. :P


That whole "friend-zone" is not 100% true, and probably may apply only to guys whos looking for quick fix? I never had problems taking it slow and patiently. :P

[Kramerman]

That whole "friend-zone" is not 100% true, and probably may apply only to guys whos looking for quick fix? I never had problems taking it slow and patiently. :P

naw, not me. Im more of the meaningful relationship type of guy. I actually enjoy the companionship of the fairer sex (well, at least the interesting ones, tho ther are so few!), taking it slow was definately no problem here.

[Zero]

maybe people just give up mentally when they realize theyre friends with girls.

Personally, I cant imagine asking out a girl that I hardly know about, and if I know them theyre my friends, if if theyre not my friends I probably think theyre a biatch.

That prolly explains why I only have success with friends :P. I totally dont understand "once you fall into friend zone," bullsh!t.

[MattyBoy]

um...I think switch is still a teen. Love you more than life itself? where did he say that?

I made it all up. Apologies to switch, but the concept amused me.

It can't be done. The simple fact that you are her friend means that she is no longer attracted to you.

I think she just wasnt attracted to me anymore, tho i dunno how you can be attracted to someone, and then seemingly abruptly, not.

OK.
I dated very few girls and I had a crush on a very close friend, which discouraged me for a long time from pursuing anything else. I felt she wasn't all that attracted to me (certainly more attracted to at least one other). Eventually (after 4 years of this), I figured that I had to make sure she wasn't interested before I could get on with finding another gf, so I invited her out regularly and tried to turn it into something much more.

The process took a long time, but we were both pretty shy about sex, so hastiness probably wouldn't have helped. Also, she pretty much "never thought of me like that" for the first 4 years before we started going out. In fact, she used to invite me to parties if she had noone else to take along and it used to break my heart.

Now we've been married almost 10 years. My love for has basically never waned. Although I'm still more attracted to her than she seems to be to me, I really don't think it is a problem, as we each have such different ways of loving the other anyway.

[Ned]

Originally posted by Jaguar Warrior
I'm 14.75, she's barely 14, so the get her drunk option isn't really viable.

I'm one of two best friends if that changes the picture. I'm close to her friends, and she's close to mine, but my friends and her friends aren't.

Walk her home and hold her hand.

[Urban Ranger]

Originally posted by MattyBoy
Now we've been married almost 10 years. My love for has basically never waned.

Wutang!

[KrazyHorse]

on the link.

Criticism:You're just bitter.
Answer:Maybe I am. But ladder theory made me that way, my bitterness did not make ladder theory. Attack the theory, not the person behind it. And why does everyone always say I'm bitter just because 99.999% of chicks are *****es?

[MattyBoy]

Wutang!

Indeed. Thanks, UR.

[Kramerman]

Now we've been married almost 10 years. My love for has basically never waned.

I envy you

I suppose i am still quite young, my whole life is ahead of me. Perhaps i shouldnt be looking so hard for 'true love'. If it happens, it happens, if not... *sigh*.