Making the friend-to-girlfriend conversion

[Urban Ranger]

You don't, not at your age. Try it 10 years later - maybe.

[Agathon]

Originally posted by Jaguar Warrior

DON'T

She's 14 and will probably laugh. Use the "kadoonk" method - it works, honest.

Wouldn't kissing her effectively be telling her . And she's the sort of person where its either going to be a yes or a non-painful non-awkward no.
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It's like taking off a sticking plaster - best do it quickly. And it takes a lot less time to plant one than say, "Well, you know, I was just thinking...."

[Paul Hanson]

My advice? No, no no, no, NO. Don't do it. Just leave it at mates and be done with it. The second you admit that you like her, she'll reveal that she has a boyfriend, and she'll avoid you like the plague.

At least, that's what happened to me.

[Urban Ranger]

Originally posted by Immortal Wombat
I have the same problem.

I nearly solved it yesterday when her G-string appeared over her jeans, and an almost irresistable urge to just ping it came over me.

I didn't.

Whuz!

No guts, no glory. Just remember that.

[Immortal Wombat]

*shrug*
next time

[Urban Ranger]

She might just be waiting for you to make a move.

[orange]

Originally posted by Urban Ranger
She might just be waiting for you to make a move.

Don't let opportunity pass you by!

Look for clues on how she feels

[Az]

I have the same problem.

I nearly solved it yesterday when her G-string appeared over her jeans, and an almost irresistable urge to just ping it came over me.

I didn't.

Is she your friend? does she talk to you a lot? Make a complimenting, naughty, remark, but don't be a pig about it. And of course, finding the right balance is the secret.

You know, I am rather good with chicks. for a g/fless loser.

[Urban Ranger]

Originally posted by orange


Don't let opportunity pass you by!

Look for clues on how she feels

Exactly.

Don't wait too long, either, or she will give up on you.

[Urban Ranger]

Originally posted by Azazel
Is she your friend? does she talk to you a lot? Make a complimenting, naughty, remark, but don't be a pig about it. And of course, finding the right balance is the secret.

You know, I am rather good with chicks. for a g/fless loser.

A wise man once said, a woman will forgive your impulsiveness (caused by her), but will not forgive your coolness.

Take this whatever way you might.

[loinburger]

Originally posted by Immortal Wombat
I nearly solved it yesterday when her G-string appeared over her jeans, and an almost irresistable urge to just ping it came over me.

You should've gone for it. I had a similar occurrence happen to me, when a girl was wearing short shorts and no underwear, and a coupla pubes poked out when she sat down. So I said, "Hey, you've got some pubes poking out, might want to look into that." She fixed herself, and said, in a huff, "Why were you looking 'down there'?" I shrugged, and said "Because I wanted to see your crotch. Sorry." Worked like a charm.

[Anodyne]

Haha. You're the man

[loinburger]

Honesty works surprisingly well, I've found. Imagine her reaction if I'd blushed and stammered "Uh, I wasn't looking, uh..." I wouldn't have had a chance in hell.

[Thrawn05]

How I did it was just let the cards fall as they may. I never try to intentionaly persue her but it turned out that way and in the words of Faron Young "Me and my baby, we are going steady".

3 years and counting, we reached the point that holding each other in the couch and falling asleep watching TV is the best thing since slice bread.

[Anodyne]

loinburger -
Gotta admit that you're right.
Usually when I do/say stuff like that, I'm drunk. But I've never gotten a hostile/overly negative response either

...although I still wouldn't say it worked like a charm