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Annoying "friends": How do you dump them?
Hey, I'm a first time poster but a looooooong time lurker... like since back when the Ultimate Civ2 Site and the The Ultimate Greek Site (or whatever it was called) merged to form Apolyton.
Anyways, I just thought I'd pose a quick question to you guys as my debut to the forums. Actually, maybe it isn't that quick, although keep in mind I'm really just venting and want to see what an outside observer would think. But here goes.
We're all college students, my friends and I, and we've got this problem. A rather large problem. See, there's this girl that we just don't like at all, in fact we hate her. But the problem is, we don't know how to get rid of her and I was wondering if you guys have ever been in a similar situation?
She's such a snake and a mooch. All she does is pop down (we all live in the same apartment buildings) uninvited, eat our food, make a mess, complain, stay way too long, and bum smokes. She'll be like "want to go for a smoke?" and we'll be like "sure", then when we get outside, she'll wait for someone to take out their pack then be like "does anyone have a smoke I can bum?" Christ, thats what I mean by snake.
Or she'll just come in and start rooting through the fridge without asking and mess up a bunch of clean dishes, or ask to borrow money so she can go to Mcdonalds without having to withdraw at an ATM (even though she makes way more money than any of us).
Actually, it can be funny at times. One of our friends has a car, and she'll call him from the plaza and be like "hey, we're all down at the plaza, come meet us", and so he'll drive over and it will be just her there and she'll be like "I need to get a few groceries real quick", so she'll go into the grocery store and get car loads of groceries and ask my friend (after she buys them) "can you give me a lift home? I'll cook up some food when we get there" and my friend will be like "Well... " then she'll throw a fit saying she can't get the groceries home if he doesn't, and he'll finally submit. Then when he gets to her house and helps bring in all her ****, she'll be like "I'm tired, I'm going to bed..." So there goes 3 hours of his day and a full tank of gas. Haha.
Its only funny because its not me.
Now, I've dumped plenty of friends before, but she is by far the worst of them, and to make it stickier, she's one of our best friends' girlfriend. We never liked her, but tolerated her because, obviously, she's our friends girlfriend... we didn't think they would last long, so we didnt worry too much, but now they've moved in together and plan to marry. Jesus.
Anyways, to make a long story short, we want to dump her and still be friends with Brian (our friend). Recently we've come to the conclusion that we can't go on anymore with her (its been over a year), and we've dubbed the effort "Operation: Lose Fatso" I can give you many more examples of things she does (they can be unbelievable at times).
Has anyone else had any similar situations where you have an annoying friend? If so, share your stories!
Anyways, I just thought I'd pose a quick question to you guys as my debut to the forums. Actually, maybe it isn't that quick, although keep in mind I'm really just venting and want to see what an outside observer would think. But here goes.
We're all college students, my friends and I, and we've got this problem. A rather large problem. See, there's this girl that we just don't like at all, in fact we hate her. But the problem is, we don't know how to get rid of her and I was wondering if you guys have ever been in a similar situation?
She's such a snake and a mooch. All she does is pop down (we all live in the same apartment buildings) uninvited, eat our food, make a mess, complain, stay way too long, and bum smokes. She'll be like "want to go for a smoke?" and we'll be like "sure", then when we get outside, she'll wait for someone to take out their pack then be like "does anyone have a smoke I can bum?" Christ, thats what I mean by snake.
Or she'll just come in and start rooting through the fridge without asking and mess up a bunch of clean dishes, or ask to borrow money so she can go to Mcdonalds without having to withdraw at an ATM (even though she makes way more money than any of us).
Actually, it can be funny at times. One of our friends has a car, and she'll call him from the plaza and be like "hey, we're all down at the plaza, come meet us", and so he'll drive over and it will be just her there and she'll be like "I need to get a few groceries real quick", so she'll go into the grocery store and get car loads of groceries and ask my friend (after she buys them) "can you give me a lift home? I'll cook up some food when we get there" and my friend will be like "Well... " then she'll throw a fit saying she can't get the groceries home if he doesn't, and he'll finally submit. Then when he gets to her house and helps bring in all her ****, she'll be like "I'm tired, I'm going to bed..." So there goes 3 hours of his day and a full tank of gas. Haha.
Its only funny because its not me.Now, I've dumped plenty of friends before, but she is by far the worst of them, and to make it stickier, she's one of our best friends' girlfriend. We never liked her, but tolerated her because, obviously, she's our friends girlfriend... we didn't think they would last long, so we didnt worry too much, but now they've moved in together and plan to marry. Jesus.
Anyways, to make a long story short, we want to dump her and still be friends with Brian (our friend). Recently we've come to the conclusion that we can't go on anymore with her (its been over a year), and we've dubbed the effort "Operation: Lose Fatso" I can give you many more examples of things she does (they can be unbelievable at times).
Has anyone else had any similar situations where you have an annoying friend? If so, share your stories!
Prov, hahah I wish I knew you in real life... you're awesome...
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