Sex cause your just 'friends'. Is it right?

[Flubber]

saint M.

My mistake. I misread something somewhere as it is clear that we are actually in total agreement so I should have had no disagreement with you in that quote -- and it appears serb is in agreement now as well-- now that he understands that we are talking about a need for additional stimuli. I assume the girlfriend comment was directed at serb

[MrFun]

Originally posted by Boris Godunov
Blisterz, but the point of this argument is whether or not those conditions are known to the partner or not.

If you enter into a relationship with someone and it is made clear that monogamy isn't expected, that you are both allowed to sleep with other folks, that's one thing. That's an "open relationship," and as long as both partners consent to it, it's fine.

But what Imran and Serb seem to be arguing about is one in which such an expectation is not known, meaning at least one of the partners expected a monogamous relationship. Imran is asserting that if a someone cheats on a partner in this kind of relationship, then that person is acted wrongly, is 100% at fault for the cheating and should bear the burden of responsibility.

Serb is asserting that there are factors which make it "okay" for someone to cheat on a partner, such as the partner not sexually satisfying the person.

IMO, Imran is 100% correct. If two people are together under the concept of monogamy, then they had better remain monogamous. If one is not being satisfied, he or she needs to address that issue with the partner and, if all else fails, leave the relationship to seek satisfaction elsewhere. Cheating on a partner in a monogamous relationship is INEXCUSABLE, and if you do it, your partner has every reasonable cause to boot your butt to the curb in the harshest manner possible. It is lying and betraying your partner.

If you don't like monogamy, then don't enter into monogamous relationships. That's fine. But if you enter into one wherein your partner is expecting monogamy and you cheat, you're a sleaze and it's all on your head, not anyone else's.

I agree with everything you said, Boris.

Even when your partner is not satisfying you sexually in a monogamous relationship, one needs to do the right thing before sleeping with others, and that is, to break up with the monogamous partner first.

[Imran Siddiqui]

That means Mr Fun agrees with everything I said too .

[MrFun]

Originally posted by Imran Siddiqui


That means Mr Fun agrees with everything I said too .

This weird, indeed, but in a good way, I guess.

A moderate liberal and a moderate conservative agreeing on something -- imagine.

[Boris Godunov]

How did this devolve into discussing the female orgasm? I mean, eewwww...

[Boris Godunov]

No one buys you're moderate, MrF...cut it out!

[Imran Siddiqui]

Who said I was a conservative?

Boris: Because it spun off from a husband not being able to satify his wife.

[MrFun]

Originally posted by Boris Godunov
No one buys you're moderate, MrF...cut it out!

Oh come on, Boris -- my being a moderate liberal turns you on -- admit it.



And Imran, I thought I remembered from past posts where you mentioned being a conservative/Republican??

There's no hiding from me -- I'm out to get all misguided Republicans, and send them to Mingapulco pernamently.

[Imran Siddiqui]

I was a Republican, but a Libertarian one.

[MrFun]

Originally posted by Imran Siddiqui
I was a Republican, but a Libertarian one.

Oh well -- close enough. You are now on my hit list.

[Imran Siddiqui]

Come and get...

Oh, sorry got bored of talking to you, Mr. Not-so-Fun.

[Shi Huangdi]

Originally posted by MrFun


Oh well -- close enough. You are now on my hit list.

Watch out Imran- he'll bore you to sleep and then take advantage of you!

[Sava]

I think having "friends with benefits" is fine, but only if you're both single and not in relationships.

[Boris Godunov]

Originally posted by MrFun


Oh come on, Boris -- my being a moderate liberal turns you on -- admit it.

Yeah, nothing turns me on more than an apologetic liberal! Wooo, be still my beating heart!

[Dinner]

Men who cheat often do so just because they can and for no other reason. Women whi cheat often do so because they are mad at their husbands.

Do you ever notice that men mostly try to hide the fact that they cheated from their wife while women almost always go home and tell their husband that they cheated and it is all his fault?