Ahh, Women...

[duke o' york]

Psst... it's necklace.

Freudian slip?

[Snowflake]

Oops. I'm really not too familiar with those things anyways.

[Dis]

why do women like jewelry. I don't get it.

I never wear any jewelry. What's the point?

[:) Smiley]

its all about the bling bling?

[Snowflake]

They are pretty, I think. And women like pretty stuff. That's our biological make ok? Plus the sociaty has made them that way. Ever since they are little, they are dressed prettier and receive loads of appraises for being dressed pretty. Looking well has long been perm marked to their unconciousness that it is something they should try to accomplish and they have identified that with their self value as a woman.

If you really want to change that, you need to start working from your own daughters.

[JohnT]

When I say that women don't want for you to talk about your relationship problems, I mean that by talking about relationship problems, you're admitting to having said problems, which makes (many, not all) women feel as if they're "failing" somehow.

That's why they don't want to hear it, guys: they much prefer to hear about how they're making you happy, not unhappy.

[Snowflake]

That's why I said timing and method.

[Barinthus]

Care to enlighten us, SF?

[Snowflake]

Talk positive, boy. Don't complain, appraise.

[Japher]

Positive reinforcement teaches nothing if you can punish when they f up.

It's like training a dog.

[Pekka]

JohnT, I never said I understood love, I said it don't exist. Hey if it exists for someone, good for them. I mean romantical love. Well, I suppose kids change things, I want to have kids someday, so sure, I'll have that possibility open.

[JohnT]

Love does exist.

[Pekka]

until I see it myself, I say it doesn't, but I'll leave the possibility open.