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Pax on the whole it was in no way shape or form meant to be hurtful if it came across that way then I of course owe you an apology. Since we have not come across each other much on this board let me say that it is not my nature to be hurtful. But being a red head sometimes the attitude comes out.
It's just that to me clubs are nothing but meat markets and most people who frequent them are only there for one thing. And in my defense let me say that I'm not the typical woman. (shut up everyone) I like a guy who is shy and sensative with a kind heart. Which apparently you are. I just get the image of the guy at the club with the shirt unbuttoned down to there with the gold chains reaking of bad colonge who thinks he's all that and the bucket of chicken. The fact that you seem to have the forsight to even think about giving a woman flowers speaks volumes. Alot of men don't realize that this really is a big thing for women.
And yes there is no need to reinvent the wheel, it's just that while I understand your point about thinking about things and East's point, I just think that sometimes we get so lost in playing the game that a persons genuine heart doesn't always get the opportunity to come through. People play way to many games and I just think that it's always best to be who you are. That's the only point I was trying to make and again if I offended it was not my intention.
And East I'm not so sure you weren't patronizing me. Sometimes I'm not sure how to take you.
Albert suggestions. Go to bookstores, cd warehouses, coffee houses, clubs if you wish, library's etc... places you will find women of similar interest.
It's just that to me clubs are nothing but meat markets and most people who frequent them are only there for one thing. And in my defense let me say that I'm not the typical woman. (shut up everyone) I like a guy who is shy and sensative with a kind heart. Which apparently you are. I just get the image of the guy at the club with the shirt unbuttoned down to there with the gold chains reaking of bad colonge who thinks he's all that and the bucket of chicken. The fact that you seem to have the forsight to even think about giving a woman flowers speaks volumes. Alot of men don't realize that this really is a big thing for women.
And yes there is no need to reinvent the wheel, it's just that while I understand your point about thinking about things and East's point, I just think that sometimes we get so lost in playing the game that a persons genuine heart doesn't always get the opportunity to come through. People play way to many games and I just think that it's always best to be who you are. That's the only point I was trying to make and again if I offended it was not my intention.
And East I'm not so sure you weren't patronizing me. Sometimes I'm not sure how to take you.
Albert suggestions. Go to bookstores, cd warehouses, coffee houses, clubs if you wish, library's etc... places you will find women of similar interest.
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