So sad and lonely...

[Rogan Josh]

Originally posted by Pax
3. Do not ask any girl to dance prior to 1130. You have to ask at least 10 girls to dance. They have to be strangers. It's best to ask girls that are looking at you already. Introduce yourself before you ask them. Lean in so they can smell your cologne. Basically, put some cologne around your ear. Speak to them in their ear. Offer them your hand or touch them on the back in a friendly nonthreatening yet familiar manner. At leat 3 out of 10 women will be willing to dance(usually). When you are dancing try to make eye contact to gage interest. If there is eye contact, make a compliment to them and a joke. They should have smiled at least twice by then. It's your choice what to do in the interim. Too close the deal. Tell them that the club is too noisy too really talk and you want too get to know them better. Phone number time. This works. Make sure that you always approach strangers. Also remember that there are girls in the club that want you to approach them. You just have too find them.

That's just downright creepy.

[Robert]

The ugliest men marry the most beautifull girls.
I'm the living example!

[Pax]

Originally posted by Rogan Josh


That's just downright creepy.

How is it creepy? It's just approaching women with a strategy for success. it's not stalking. It's more like the opposite of stalking because if the woman is uninterested you move on quickly.
Remeber to smile when you speak. That shows confidence or warmth.

[East Street Trader]

It sounds like good practical stuff to me, Rogan J.

I have not come across the idea of seeking an exchange of phone numbers because you did not have a chance to talk to someone and it sounds like a winner.

If I still went to clubs I'd be giving it a try, anyway.

The "It's too noisy to talk in here" line is also excellent.

And if she gives you her number she is going to say yes when you ask her out.

[duke o' york]

"Sorry, it's too noisy to WHAT in here?"

[Ming]

So what if you aren't "good looking"... not all women are good looking either. Don't aim too high if you have confidence problems. The plainer looking girls are probably feeling as lonely as you are as they watch their beautiful friends get all the guys... they will appreciate the attention.

You might be surprised at how great some of the plainer looking girls can be... looks aren't everything.

[Jamski]

They'll all kick you in the balls and leave you one day though. Plain or pretty.

And they'll take the cat.

-Jam

[Pax]

Originally posted by Ming
So what if you aren't "good looking"... not all women are good looking either. Don't aim too high if you have confidence problems. The plainer looking girls are probably feeling as lonely as you are as they watch their beautiful friends get all the guys... they will appreciate the attention.

You might be surprised at how great some of the plainer looking girls can be... looks aren't everything.

This is the order I use.
1. Women that look interested in me
2. When that I am interested in.
3. Women that are acceptable to my physical standards.
I find that the ugliest girls will reject me faster than the prettiest girls. So why bother settling.

The other thing is what's this about getting shot. there are lots of nice places to live in Philly. Try historiclandmarks.com. Women like a cool apartment vs an apartment in the gutter. Think romantic setting when choosing location. If you want to stay around blacks then I recommend a mixed neighborhood with a variety of people. Like a greenwich village/little five points eccentric community.

[Rogan Josh]

Originally posted by Ming
So what if you aren't "good looking"... not all women are good looking either.

But why would you want to **** them if they aren't good looking?

[Ming]

Originally posted by Rogan Josh


But why would you want to **** them if they aren't good looking?

I didn't say ugly
There are many average and slghtly above average looking woman out there. Many people ignore them as they try to go after their dream lady... you know, the ones that get their pick of who they want.

And the odds are, it won't be an average type of guy. Many guys and women fail because they set their goals too high... based solely on looks. And as anybody can tell you, looks is only part of the deal.

Granted, if a person's looks turn you off, I wouldn't recommend trying to start a relationship... But I will say, even an average looking girl could become much better in your mind if you hit it off and truely like each other.

[lightblue]

I used to use the what i liked to call the " Hot or Not" method. Guess we're all familiar with the site and it's basic premises. Find out what rating you are, and go through a bunch of the female pictures to determine what the general perception of attractiveness is. Then aim for someone your rating or slightly lower and it'll probably work.

But really i don't think this your problem as much as a self image problem. If you don't believe in yourself, why would anyone else? Be a bit more cocky, if it helps give yourself little pep talks in your head just building yourself up. In a way women are like dogs in that they smell fear. It's probably an evolutionary thing...

[MRT144]

i forgot speer has the personality of a rock. work on the holmes. start drinking cold malt beverages like mickey's

[MRT144]

Originally posted by Ted Striker
yeah but that was just last year

try 4 years douche

[Japher]

What's with all the me threads lately! Maybe if you (Speers) changed your online name

i dont understand why i was created with this face that repulses women...

As Ming said, not all women are into looks (and he should know ), besides superficial woman are high maintenance and are usually not worth it. If it's right, it's right.

this speech that bothers women...

Living where you live I can imagine how that can happen.

this soul that disgusts women...

Living where you live I can imagine how that can happen.

and yet i was created with a heart constantly yearning for love.

Don't worry, it'll come.

and why is it that every day i live in fear that tonight, I will be laying on the concrete in a puddle of my blood, some bullet-torn part of my body burning because some one wanted my wallet? I will die on some street without a woman saying those sweet words that every ounce of my being years for, "I love you, Ramsey". Every day I am scared to die before i feel love.

Don't worry, life ain't that kind. It will first give you love, then rip from you, then kick you around for a while until are all you are left with are memories of how it use to be, a bottle of cheap gin, and a pet rat named bobo whose abode you are invading because the woman took the house, the kids, the IRA, and has you stuck paying an alimony which is 3x what you earn... That's how life works.

[Q Classic]

no offense, but are you sober? i've not seen you this down in a good long while...