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**Space05us** · November 10, 2003, 01:49

Ill! ::vomit::

really contributing to the conversation arent you.

Ben, I can see what you like about those girls, they look like nice people.

Same thing I like in a girl too. The second one is good looking, but the first is a bit on the large side and the last, well, looks like her mom and dad are more closly related then they should be....

**self biased** · November 10, 2003, 02:11

i'm not stereotyping, space. i'm just saying that from what i've seen, that is what it appears to be. not what it is. i just simply don't understand the subtle nuances. i work with several people who enjoy the culture. they're all intelligent, well spoken people. i've seen my share of people with braincells burned out, too.

**Ben Kenobi** · November 10, 2003, 02:42

Well, they aren't my cup of tea, but beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

first is a bit on the large side

I tend to like somewhat larger women, especially redheads. I keep telling my girlfirend that I like her curves, there's no need for her to diet. More women need to hear this since they will be way healthier.

I used to date a really nice redhead who streaked her hair blond.

She used to say it made her look dowdy, especially with long hair.

**Urban Ranger** · November 10, 2003, 02:43

Originally posted by Space05us

really contributing to the conversation arent you.

So now we can't express our opinions anymore?

**Space05us** · November 10, 2003, 02:53

I keep telling my girlfirend that I like her curves, there's no need for her to diet. More women need to hear this since they will be way healthier.

My last girlfriend had a bit of chub, and I told her it didnt matter she was still beautiful. everyone else told her the same thing, but she still isnt happy with her body.

So now we can't express our opinions anymore?

if you have an opinion to express try putting it into more than two words, "Ill! ::vomit::" is a bit childish, even for you.

**Ben Kenobi** · November 10, 2003, 03:18

I don't know what I can do about that.

Anyone have a clue what to say to make her happier with her body?

UR:

Funny, a mod should be complaining about not being able to express an opinion. You need to toughen up, like MtG rips into ill-formed opinions.

Show us how we are provincial hicks with poor taste in women.

**self biased** · November 10, 2003, 04:56

i've come to enjoy all types of women, recently. i can see some kind of beauty just about anywhere, really.

and there really isn't such a thing as an ugly throat, when you think about it.

**Urban Ranger** · November 10, 2003, 12:48

Originally posted by Space05us
if you have an opinion to express try putting it into more than two words, "Ill! ::vomit::" is a bit childish, even for you.

Ah, yes, the old ad hominem. When run out of arguments, fling an insult.

**self biased** · November 10, 2003, 15:58

indeed. i see a pot, and a kettle. guess which color they are.

and kenobi, in keeping with the spirit of the thread...

the first one's prolly the cutest out of your selection. she shows some confidence, sass, and above all self respect. however, i'm not personally fond of the urban cowgirl look, or dark tans, as could probably be evidenced by my posts... oh. and i loathe country music.

the second, i'm wary of. she didn't even crop her prom date out of the picture... also, young, and possibly naive. perhaps for fun time, but little else.

#3) i see drunk people.

**Ben Kenobi** · November 10, 2003, 23:07

Thanks, selfbiased.

Any clue about my question, what I can say to my girlfriend to make her feel better about her body?

And UR:

All talk and no action. Where's the pics.

**self biased** · November 11, 2003, 03:24

no clue whatsoever, ben. it seems that no woman is ever truly happy with her body. be they built like amanda (5'8" 107# ~ 49kg) or heavier, like others i've dated. amanda was deranged, anyway...

a freind at work asked me a good question today: "are you pining for amanda, or the feelings you had for her?" all harano gloom, depression, and whatnot has been put on hold while i figure this out...

anywho, like i said. i've never known a woman to be completely happy with the way her body looks, usually, they think they're too fat, in much rarer cases, too thin.

now, granted i know i could stand to lose about a stone in weight my self, but i don't think that i should be shut out of society. i don't let it really bother me, either. it's one of those things i say: "i can exercise any time i want to. but i've got to go check that thread on 'poly, so it'll have to wait."

**KrazyHorse** · November 11, 2003, 03:28

Originally posted by Ben Kenobi
Thanks, selfbiased.

Any clue about my question, what I can say to my girlfriend to make her feel better about her body?

"I bought you a 5000$ plastic surgery gift certificate for your birthday"

This requires putting your money where your mouth is, though. If you don't, it's just sort of cruel...

**self biased** · November 11, 2003, 03:30

i can't say i truly beleive in plastic surgery. i like my girls natural. now, if she's been in some sort of car accident, or was in an archer's cult, resulting in the loss of a breast, then yeah, even things out... but... if i'm attracted to someone, it's usually for who they are.

**KrazyHorse** · November 11, 2003, 03:34

Do I really need to add the

smilies?

**self biased** · November 11, 2003, 03:42

i wouldn't have gotten it if you had, KH.

c'mon, boys. i'm tired of druging up old flames of mine, and the like... let's see what 'projects' you're working on.

and space05us, post some pics, damn you!

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