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  • #76
    The handicap wouldn't be an issue. Hell half my guys can't speak English worth crap. Not being able to hear them wouild probably be an advantage. (assuming the person was qualified and acted like he'd get along with the crew)

    But I have had some bad experiences with fundies. I had one guy that was a great worker that got along with everyone then he rediscovered religion. His work performance went down, and he went out of his to try to "convert" all his co-workers. It got so bad that people started avoiding him and team spirit started to fall apart. I'm sure if I saw clues of this type of behavior in an interview, it would negatively impact my feelings about the candidate. I doubt this would be a primary reason, but it would definately impact a close call between candidates.
    It's almost as if all his overconfident, absolutist assertions were spoonfed to him by a trusted website or subreddit. Sheeple
    RIP Tony Bogey & Baron O

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    • #77
      If I only had the one applicant I would leave the position unfilled until someone suitable came along.
      "I have never killed a man, but I have read many obituaries with great pleasure." - Clarence Darrow
      "I didn't attend the funeral, but I sent a nice letter saying I approved of it." - Mark Twain

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      • #78
        The handicap wouldn't be an issue. Hell half my guys can't speak English worth crap. Not being able to hear them wouild probably be an advantage. (assuming the person was qualified and acted like he'd get along with the crew)

        But I have had some bad experiences with fundies. I had one guy that was a great worker that got along with everyone then he rediscovered religion. His work performance went down, and he went out of his to try to "convert" all his co-workers. It got so bad that people started avoiding him and team spirit started to fall apart. I'm sure if I saw clues of this type of behavior in an interview, it would negatively impact my feelings about the candidate. I doubt this would be a primary reason, but it would definately impact a close call between candidates.
        Well you know me here from Poly so it's a bit different. I'm a big believer in keeping work stuff with work stuff, and personal stuff with personal stuff. I don't talk religion or politics with coworkers. If you ask me I'll be happy to talk about it but otherwise no. I just want to go in at work and work, and then go home when the job's done.
        Scouse Git (2) La Fayette Adam Smith Solomwi and Loinburger will not be forgotten.
        "Remember the night we broke the windows in this old house? This is what I wished for..."
        2015 APOLYTON FANTASY FOOTBALL CHAMPION!

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        • #79
          How would they even know about the disability from the application?
          The application asked for physical and mental disabilities that could affect performance, along with the usual disclaimers, (ie, it won't be taken into consideration), etc.

          More likely they saw that you were mentally incompetent. The kind of guy who starts off doing a real degree in university then promptly drops that to go to some no-name small-time rural BC school and get a history degree.
          This was while I was still a student at UBC. My friend had a couple years at the community college and neither of us had a degree.

          Now, all I put is a degree in History at UNBC. If they ask, I'll tell them about my time in physics at UBC, but it usually doesn't come up. I had one job with the BBC, where the reporter had me doing some data analysis on some of the research for her, and we managed to pitch the story to her boss so she got a featured article.
          Scouse Git (2) La Fayette Adam Smith Solomwi and Loinburger will not be forgotten.
          "Remember the night we broke the windows in this old house? This is what I wished for..."
          2015 APOLYTON FANTASY FOOTBALL CHAMPION!

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          • #80
            Yes. Life is tough to be a straight white male Christian in the US and Canada.

            Cry me a ****ing river.
            If your lifestyle is interfering with your job performance then something has to give.
            Scouse Git (2) La Fayette Adam Smith Solomwi and Loinburger will not be forgotten.
            "Remember the night we broke the windows in this old house? This is what I wished for..."
            2015 APOLYTON FANTASY FOOTBALL CHAMPION!

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            • #81
              Originally posted by Ben Kenobi View Post
              If your lifestyle is interfering with your job performance then something has to give.
              What the **** does this have to do with anything in this thread. Holy ****, you never cease to amaze me.

              My "lifestyle" has absolutely nothing to do with my performance. The problem is *******s like you who if -- however unlikely -- you get in a position of power your stupidity about your religion tends to cloud rationality and accurate performance appraisals.
              "The issue is there are still many people out there that use religion as a crutch for bigotry and hate. Like Ben."
              Ben Kenobi: "That means I'm doing something right. "

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              • #82
                My "lifestyle" has absolutely nothing to do with my performance. The problem is *******s like you who if -- however unlikely -- you get in a position of power your stupidity about your religion tends to cloud rationality and accurate performance appraisals.
                As far as I'm concerned if I were a manager, it's not my business to know what your sex life is like. I simply don't care. If you choose to make it my business, then you might not like the response.
                Scouse Git (2) La Fayette Adam Smith Solomwi and Loinburger will not be forgotten.
                "Remember the night we broke the windows in this old house? This is what I wished for..."
                2015 APOLYTON FANTASY FOOTBALL CHAMPION!

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                • #83
                  u know, not every christian is a closeted gay. . In fact some guys are just effeminate. Especially Canadians. But that doesn't make them gay.

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                  • #84
                    Originally posted by Ben Kenobi View Post
                    As far as I'm concerned if I were a manager, it's not my business to know what your sex life is like. I simply don't care. If you choose to make it my business, then you might not like the response.
                    How is it me making it your business to know what my sex life is like?

                    There's tons of corporate events where they say "bring your spouse!"

                    If I bring my spouse, I can't be expected to be treated the same from bigots such as yourself.

                    That's not me making it your business, despite what your bigoted ass may think it is.

                    **** you.
                    "The issue is there are still many people out there that use religion as a crutch for bigotry and hate. Like Ben."
                    Ben Kenobi: "That means I'm doing something right. "

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                    • #85
                      Originally posted by Dis View Post
                      u know, not every christian is a closeted gay. . In fact some guys are just effeminate. Especially Canadians. But that doesn't make them gay.
                      Sure. Why not?

                      "I have never killed a man, but I have read many obituaries with great pleasure." - Clarence Darrow
                      "I didn't attend the funeral, but I sent a nice letter saying I approved of it." - Mark Twain

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                      • #86
                        There's tons of corporate events where they say "bring your spouse!"
                        And you are assuming I'd do the same?

                        If I bring my spouse, I can't be expected to be treated the same from bigots such as yourself.
                        I'd treat everyone the same. I wouldn't have these 'events' because these same problems always crop up. Just not worth the hassle and frusteration. If I held something it would be employees only and optional, so if you didn't want to go, you could choose not to come.

                        That's not me making it your business, despite what your bigoted ass may think it is.
                        You are making it the business of the company by making a political statement. They throw these events to have fun not have someone be a wet blanket.
                        Scouse Git (2) La Fayette Adam Smith Solomwi and Loinburger will not be forgotten.
                        "Remember the night we broke the windows in this old house? This is what I wished for..."
                        2015 APOLYTON FANTASY FOOTBALL CHAMPION!

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                        • #87
                          Asher, studies show that putting people like BK on Ignore can go a long way toward more healthy blood pressure. Try it.
                          A lot of Republicans are not racist, but a lot of racists are Republican.

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                          • #88
                            I really should. especially after comments like
                            You are making it the business of the company by making a political statement. They throw these events to have fun not have someone be a wet blanket.
                            I just don't know where to start with this one. There is just soooooooo much wrong with it.
                            It's almost as if all his overconfident, absolutist assertions were spoonfed to him by a trusted website or subreddit. Sheeple
                            RIP Tony Bogey & Baron O

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                            • #89
                              Well according to BK then, gay people are not allowed to enjoy company parties the same way that straight people enjoy them. "Straight people are suppose to have fun at these events, but gay people are not allowed to do the same."
                              A lot of Republicans are not racist, but a lot of racists are Republican.

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                              • #90
                                Ben is a mean-spirited ******* who goes against of all virtues of Christianity.

                                I sometimes wish the concept of the afterlife was true, just so he'd burn in hell for all of eternity after wasting his life thinking he was serving the Lord by being a gigantic, hateful douche.
                                "The issue is there are still many people out there that use religion as a crutch for bigotry and hate. Like Ben."
                                Ben Kenobi: "That means I'm doing something right. "

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