Ripped Women

[MikeH]

How come I'm not rolling in women, then, if this world was so superficial and I'm lucky to be built like this?

And there's no such thing as 'naturally chubby'. Work out. There's no reason why you can't look like me or better if you work out. Although, I doubt that that alone will help you get women

Like you said, you find it easy enough to meet women and get numbers, so your looks have done their job.

Then it's how you act after that that puts them off. Too inconsistent by the sounds of it, sometimes intense sometimes ignoring them.

[Flubber]

Albie

Your base premise is stupid-- women don't like fit guys ??? sheesh thats laughable. While there are exceptions and people that like thin, or chunky, or short or whatever, the ideal for the majority of women would be a fit taller guy (not bodybuilder fit with muscles on muscles as many woman don't enjoy that)- I bet that there are surveys and studies that would prove this. It also fits my own experience. When I was cycling and weightlifting and got some nice definition but was not "overmuscled" I found I was getting approached by women (something that had been rarer before and after that period).

The difference is that I know how to talk to a woman. I have no idea what you are doing wrong but its clear that its something. You look fine and your experience and ability to get numbers etc etc show its not your look dude.

[Zevico]

One would be inclined to think that the common denominator in all of Al's tales is FEMALES not liking Al. Don't think anything of it, Al. Plenty of other FEMALES in the sea.

[MRT144]

Al, I was in great shape when my wife met me. Also, until me she had never dated a guy under 6 foot. I guess personality, humor, empathy, career, make up for not being 5 inches taller. Hilarious that you have a deficit in all those categories.

[Ben Kenobi]

When I was cycling and weightlifting and got some nice definition but was not "overmuscled" I found I was getting approached by women

Same here, when I was done planting.

I'm really not sure why Albert's complaining. I'm all of 5'5'' and my problem with gals is that I don't go out and socialize enough. If I were willing to devote more time to it I wouldn't have difficulties finding someone who was very sweet and kind.

[Hauldren Collider]

I think if you weren't a flaming racist homophobe you'd have less difficulty finding someone so drastically different from yourself, aka "sweet and kind".

[giblets]

He probably doesn't want a woman who wouldn't be submissive (or as he calls it "sweet and kind").

[Ben Kenobi]

I think if you weren't a flaming racist homophobe you'd have less difficulty finding someone so drastically different from yourself, aka "sweet and kind".

Where did I express dissatisfaction with my current situation? I'm very happy with how things are at present. I'm just saying that when I was in Albert's situation, that was my experience. When I made the effort I didn't have much difficulty in finding some really nice gals.

As for 'racist', you might want ask the Korean, or the Sikh gal about how she feels about that

[Ben Kenobi]

He probably doesn't want a woman who wouldn't be submissive (or as he calls it "sweet and kind").

I like women who are happy being women. Comfortable in their own skin. As for submissive, yes, it's nice to have someone who's kind, who goes out of their way to treat you with respect. Who gives you a great gift and spends time with you and looks after you when things are not going well.

I've been fortunate enough to meet several women like this. They have been a real blessing in my life.

[Sava]

this thread is magnificent

[MRT144]

Same here, when I was done planting.

I'm really not sure why Albert's complaining. I'm all of 5'5'' and my problem with gals is that I don't go out and socialize enough. If I were willing to devote more time to it I wouldn't have difficulties finding someone who was very sweet and kind.

He might even be able to marry you one day.

[Al B. Sure!]

How does Ben date a Sikh? I assume he couldn't marry her or he would demand her conversion before he marries her.

And submissive women


I like the aggressive and fiery type.

[Sava]

I like the aggressive and fiery type.

wtf?

the ones that fight back after they yell NO NO NO?!

[Al B. Sure!]

I don't want a push-over. I want one that knows what she wants and she goes and gets it. I don't want the home-maker type.

[Pax]

The homemaker type is probably the most aggressive and fiery. She knows what she wants and she makes you go out and get it.