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To be clear, I'm not interested in this woman. This is in no way asking for romantic advice or anything.
I'm just asking from a purely platonic prospective, why this random woman who I don't really know well beyond small-talk and who I haven't seen/spoken to in probably over 2 years apparently went to my profile to like a random old status that asked how I was doing (so it's not like a liking of a content-based post, or something), then when I talked to her, she seemed disinterested?
What would make a woman just decide to do that?
The fact that you are all jumping to romantic stuff is telling... because we as men assume she had to do this for a reason. She had to have some ulterior motive. And it could be construed as an expression of interest. It would make sense.
But her disinterest in the conversation 20 minutes after she apparently went on my profile says this isn't so. So what else could it have been?
If it was genuinely platonic just friendly interest in someone's well-being, that's fine, as well, but I would have expected a bit more in the convo.
I brought up right away, as you noticed in the chat transcript, the fact that she posted on my wall and she just said 'haha'
What is the haha about? What is behind the haha?
It's these little things that throw me off and make women impossible for me to deal with, even in a purely PLATONIC context.
I'm just asking from a purely platonic prospective, why this random woman who I don't really know well beyond small-talk and who I haven't seen/spoken to in probably over 2 years apparently went to my profile to like a random old status that asked how I was doing (so it's not like a liking of a content-based post, or something), then when I talked to her, she seemed disinterested?
What would make a woman just decide to do that?
The fact that you are all jumping to romantic stuff is telling... because we as men assume she had to do this for a reason. She had to have some ulterior motive. And it could be construed as an expression of interest. It would make sense.
But her disinterest in the conversation 20 minutes after she apparently went on my profile says this isn't so. So what else could it have been?
If it was genuinely platonic just friendly interest in someone's well-being, that's fine, as well, but I would have expected a bit more in the convo.
I brought up right away, as you noticed in the chat transcript, the fact that she posted on my wall and she just said 'haha'
What is the haha about? What is behind the haha?
It's these little things that throw me off and make women impossible for me to deal with, even in a purely PLATONIC context.
at how you got all that from next to nothing but okay... and I'm not interested in her romantically. I'm only interested in the workings of the female mind.
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