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  • Me thinks I have chronic depression.

    As far back as junior high, I had pronounced feelings of lonliness and maybe even depression. I'm not sure what exactly caused it to get worse, but then sometime later, while working on my thesis and struggling to find a teaching position and working in retail, I began having thoughts of suicide on occasion (this was several years after significant other's suicide). Did I do the right thing to get psychiatric treament? Nope - I thought as long as I had some family and good friends I could talk with whenever I got seriously depressed, that I could deal with it with no future risk in hurting/killing myself.

    During stressful times of uncertainty in my life, such as between jobs, or financial stress, my anxiety and depression gets worse at times. So about two weeks ago, I finally admitted to myself that I may need psychiatric treament and prescribed anti-depressant (hopefully at least low-dosage) and I made an apppointment. The initial psychiatric treatment for assessment or diagnosis is the last week of April.

    Until recently, only about three of my closest friends have known how bad my depression can sometimes be; they even know about my past thoughts of suicide. I never disclosed the severity of it to my family until I made that appointment and finally told my mother. I have yet to disclose anything about this to my siblings (dad has been deceased for years now).

    I have no idea what pyschiatric treatment is like first-hand, but from what someone else has told me, it usually will be combination of prescription and counseling. I guess the reason I'm finally facing this thing the way I should have some time ago, is because this has affected my social life, dating life, and my work. With the depression, I get lethargic, which really has hurt my productivity at times with work (habitual tardiness due to a little oversleeping, lack of focus on tasks, etc.). I'm hoping that not only will I eliminate any risk of future suicide, but that this will help improve my life over all.

    But it does not help knowing that come June, my contracted position with Papers of Abraham Lincoln will end. I recently applied for graduate school again, to pursue a second Masters (Library Science) as I find a possible career in librarianship to be interesting. Right now, I'm enrolled in three classes on a non-credit basis. If I get approved, then I have to figure a way to finance my education - hopefully without more loans. The non-credit courses can then be transferred.

    Is anyone here comfortable with sharing their own experience with this sort of stuff, or knows someone who does deal with this stuff?
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      I grew up with chronic asthma as a kid, dad left when i was 10 and step-dad beat me, left home when i was 18 and lived in a crime-ridden ghetto, diagnosed with paranoid schizophrenia, worked ****ty odd jobs my whole life.

      My asthma has now turned into a minor bronchitis, i have a close relationship with my remaining family, i live on my own in a duplex, i have put the schizophrenia into remission, and i've been with my current (very-stable) job for 3 years.

      im now 32 so ya i can relate a little bit.
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        Well with the stable job, it sounds like your life may have turned around for the better, AAHZ.
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          I find it amazing you might get to drugs so easy. Let's first just talk to the guy will ya!
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            Germanos, that is the whole point of my first appointment next month. It would be great if I don't need drugs. But othe counselors I've see in the past, thought I might need them. I always said "nah, I don't think so."

            One of the reasons for my reluctance, until now, was that I don't like the idea of relying on a prescription to feel mentally better. I mean, this medicine affects one's mind. But one of my friends offered another perspective: "Your brain is just another organ, like your heart. If you have heart problems, you get a prescription for it. If you have chronic depression, you get a prescription for your brain." I think that helps a little, thinking it like that.
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              Check your PMs, Mr. Fun.
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              • #8
                "Cast your cares on the Lord
                and he will sustain you;
                he will never let the righteous fall."
                -Psalms 55:22

                God be with you, Mr. Fun.
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                • #9
                  Originally posted by MrFun View Post
                  Well with the stable job, it sounds like your life may have turned around for the better, AAHZ.
                  indeed it has

                  my post was mostly to state (with proof) that i've "been there." Unfortunately different things help different people. For me it was not drugs but practices on calming the mind (with non-chemical substances) using various mental tricks that became habit. Basically i brainwashed myself into feeling better.
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                    Praise God for His blessings.
                    Exercise.
                    Relax.

                    Will improve you.

                    JM
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                      Originally posted by AAHZ View Post
                      indeed it has

                      my post was mostly to state (with proof) that i've "been there." Unfortunately different things help different people. For me it was not drugs but practices on calming the mind (with non-chemical substances) using various mental tricks that became habit. Basically i brainwashed myself into feeling better.
                      Feel free to PM more details about your mental techniques/habits.
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                        Originally posted by Jon Miller View Post
                        Praise God for His blessings.
                        Exercise.
                        Relax.

                        Will improve you.

                        JM
                        Hmm . . .

                        I have stopped doing my regular exercises about a half year ago. It did make me feel better when I was doing this, but thoughts of suicide is serious stuff.

                        EDIT: In other words, exercise alone won't cut it.
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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by Imran Siddiqui View Post
                          "Cast your cares on the Lord
                          and he will sustain you;
                          he will never let the righteous fall."
                          -Psalms 55:22

                          God be with you, Mr. Fun.
                          I really like this passage; thanks.
                          A lot of Republicans are not racist, but a lot of racists are Republican.

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by Ben Kenobi View Post
                            Check your PMs, Mr. Fun.
                            I check them without having to be asked to check for new PMs.

                            I read what you had to say. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
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                              You are very welcome.
                              Scouse Git (2) La Fayette Adam Smith Solomwi and Loinburger will not be forgotten.
                              "Remember the night we broke the windows in this old house? This is what I wished for..."
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