Female sex drive

[Blaupanzer]

Hera, does this relate in any way to your own orgasmic dysfunction? You can probably keep it up long enough for her to have more than one orgasm in a single session. Does that count? Or does she want to go at it at least three times a day?

[Blaupanzer]

Liar! We don't have pennies in Russia! Or sex, either.

Okay, so maybe the tale is from red russia, or white russia, or black russia, or little russia, or bylorussia, or ukraine, or even Poland. But the lady I heard the tale from was from pre-Revolutionary St Petersburg.

[Theben]

Liar! We don't have pennies in Russia! Or sex, either.

I 1st read this as "We don't have penises in Russia". It would explain a lot.

[Arrian]

My gf said that ideally she would like it three times a day.

Enjoy that while it lasts.

-Arrian

[self biased]

My gf said that ideally she would like it three times a day. How much of it do the partners of male polytubbies want it? Ideally I would prefer first hand accounts but there are few girls on poly... though I'm sure AC will not be able to resist posting.

mrs. biased's interests wax and wane. there were times that we would only emerge from the bedroom for nourishment and hygiene, spending fourteen hours in various stages of rutting like savages. other times, i'd be likely to get it once a week. now that we've sort of settled into a routine after the baby (who is nearly a year old now), we probably average a little more than once a day, with a few exceptional days exceeding three times.

Also how openly do you talk about your sex life and/or fantasies with your partner? I *think* I've finally managed to get her to be completley hones with me, I tried really hard to ensure that she wouldn't think I'd judge her or anything... I was suprised, a lot actually, by some of the things she's told me. I never realised women think about sex as much as men do (they also seem to have a better imagination).

as with anything, honesty is the cornerstone of the relationship. i couldn't even describe some of the things this has enabled my wife and i to do here. i can say that the more we talk about things the better they get.

[Darius871]

I think you have a pretty exceptional girl there. Definitely outside normal expectations.

After reading Kid's thread I think you'd better rethink that statement. Or virtually any of AC's posts for that matter.

[Solomwi]

After reading Kid's thread I think you'd better rethink that statement. Or virtually any of AC's posts for that matter.

I'm not sure how typical AC is. After all, she's a female law student who isn't perpetually angry or offended.

[David Floyd]

There's your problem.

In response to this, I'd like to propose a new rule: Anyone with no practical sexual experience is not allowed to "contribute" to threads about sex, other than to ask questions and listen quietly.

Come to think of it, perhaps we should apply this rule to every thread? And yes, I would shut up a lot more, too.

In any case...

The woman I am...dating...currently wants sex non-stop. The first time, we had sex three times, and each time thereafter, the only time we only had sex once that day/night was once when she was drunk out of her mind and once when I was hungover like you wouldn't believe.

All women are different, though - I've been with women who dry up if you don't finish fast enough. Needless to say, they're done for the night. I've been with women who just don't want to have sex more than once. It just totally depends.

[Ben Kenobi]

In response to this, I'd like to propose a new rule: Anyone with no practical sexual experience is not allowed to "contribute" to threads about sex, other than to ask questions and listen quietly.

So one cannot gain wisdom through observation of others? What have you got against empirical knowledge? I don't have to stick my finger in a light socket to know that it's a bad idea.

From what I know of Ozzy, I think he, and his girlfriend would be happier married.

Come to think of it, perhaps we should apply this rule to every thread? And yes, I would shut up a lot more, too.

The only problem is that it wouldn't work for epistemology. If we relied only on those things for which we have direct experience, I could just as easily say that every person is different. How could you go and say what sex was like for someone without actually sleeping with them?

[David Floyd]

Oh for Christ's sake.

Never mind. We're not doing this, in this thread.

[Dis]

3 times a day lol. no way that's going to happen with me. I could do it 3 times in one day, but not every day.

as for discussing sex life with my partner I don't do it. It would be strange talking to my hand.

[Darius871]

she's a female law student who isn't perpetually angry or offended.

Indeed, a true rarity.

[Heraclitus]

If you can give a woman good orgasms, she'll want it as much as she can get it, and even more. The solution is simple, stop being so good.

I don't think I am that good, though I do try really hard. I've studied a lot of literature on the subject and my problem may have caused me to focus more on the other partner. But overall I would say its impropable that I am markedly above average.


I think a better explanation is that it is just who much she normally wants or thinks she wants.

[Blaupanzer]

as for discussing sex life with my partner I don't do it. It would be strange talking to my hand.

You would get absolute agreement, however. Grandma thumb and her four daughters are always available and always in the mood when you are. They never wander off and won't be unfaithful without your consent. OTOH, it would look a little weird, mabe a lot weird.

[Kidlicious]

Is your whole relationship just sex? If you are ****ing 3 times a day maybe you don't have anything else to do or talk about. If so maybe as your relationship progresses you will stop just ****ing all the time.