Why do women go after older men?

[Mrs. Tuberski]

Originally posted by Sava
any age difference more than 10 years... starts to get creepy... IMO

I understand people may find their soulmates...

but still

it just creeps me out

I'm not saying it's wrong or anything... I don't care... let people be happy

but more than 10-15 years age difference and you start to get into strange territory, IMO

although, once you get up there in age, I don't think it makes as big a difference... like 30 years is nothing if you are talking about 100-70

but 25-55?

that's gross, whether it be the guy is 25 or the woman is 25

but I guess someone has to KNOCK THE DUST OFF THAT P*SSY

I have to agree, ecpet i dont get creeped out. I dont really have an opinion on what other folks do live and let live. I personally would not date a guy a whole lot younger then me. I think its because i am already set in mylife and career that i would realy have nothing to offer the youngster.

[Grandpa Troll]

Originally posted by Mrs. Tuberski


I have to agree, ecpet i dont get creeped out. I dont really have an opinion on what other folks do live and let live. I personally would not date a guy a whole lot younger then me. I think its because i am already set in mylife and career that i would realy have nothing to offer the youngster.

Plus you Tubes

[Flubber]

Originally posted by Mrs. Tuberski

i would realy have nothing to offer the youngster.

not even wild sexual experiences, the intensity and creativity of which are beyond his wildest youthful imaginings ????




Women who know what they are doing

[pchang]

Absolute vs. relative

I think the important thing is the % difference in years. Absolute numbers fail as we get older.

[Mrs. Tuberski]

Originally posted by Flubber


not even wild sexual experiences, the intensity and creativity of which are beyond his wildest youthful imaginings ????




Women who know what they are doing

Thats a good point!!! I suppose if i wasnt married and i was letting loose, and the youngin doesnt fall in love and want to move into my house sure. but i think id still draw the line at the guy being no more then 15 years my junior.
GT: You are right I do tuber, some one has to

[Sikander]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Why do women go after older men?

Originally posted by DAVOUT


Penis is a concept which has to be treated with reverence; therefore it has many flattering or pleasant synonyms, but nothing disrecpecfully euphemistic.

[Sikander]

Originally posted by Oerdin
Some women are also looking for a father figure which I find slightly desturbing.

I find a good spanking makes everyone feel better.

[Richelieu]

Why do women go after older men?

I don't know, i don't care, just keep doing it please!

[Ben Kenobi]

but i think id still draw the line at the guy being no more then 15 years my junior.

Why 15?

[pchang]

its probably related to how old she is now. Like I said, its probably the percent difference that is the real constant here.

[hexagonian]

Originally posted by Mrs. Tuberski
but i think id still draw the line at the guy being no more then 15 years my junior.

I hope you are not 25

[Tiamat]

Plain and simple, because they don't have to train them, deal with all the growing pains while they decide to become mature and they have their ****e together. Guy's between their 20's and 35 are still playing with their toys and girls. Older men know what they want and definatly what they don't want. They are clearer then younger men. They savor life more.

[Dis]

Originally posted by Ben Kenobi


Why 15?

beyond that you start getting into the age you are old enough to be their mother.

[Dis]

I would date a woman older than me. In fact, I prefer women in their 30's. The woman I'm attracted to most right now is 2 years older than me. She turns 35 next week. I could probably date a woman in her early 40's. After that, it might get a bit creepy.

Not that I wouldn't bang any hot 18 year old chick. You can't deny the physical attraction. but the maturity level of teenage girls is terrible.

[SlowwHand]

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