Why do women go after older men?

[Urban Ranger]

Originally posted by MrFun
I have seen guys in their 40s who haven't matured that much beyond the mentality of age 22.

You are confusing somebody who is immature with somebody who has a little kid inside.

[Grandpa Troll]

Originally posted by Urban Ranger


You are confusing somebody who is immature with somebody who has a little kid inside.

Thank you UR

That is something many fail to understand

Me, I have a hard job and relax and have fun when away from work.

I am a big kid at heart and that is me..not anyone else, for it takes all kinds to make the world go around




Gramps

[MrFun]

Originally posted by Urban Ranger


You are confusing somebody who is immature with somebody who has a little kid inside.

No -- one can certainly be light-hearted and fun-loving while still having maturity in regards to consideration of others, respect for others, and so on.

[Provost Harrison]

Originally posted by MrFun



No -- one can certainly be light-hearted and fun-loving while still having maturity in regards to consideration of others, respect for others, and so on.

I couldn't imagine you being light-hearted and fun-loving at the best of times

I am still very youthful in many ways, but I am mature and responsible...

[Dis]

I'm mature I think. I'm very mature at work. In fact, I'm too serious everyone says. But as you all know here, I'm not all that serious in my free time while posting at poly. But I may have matured in the time I've posted here. Okay, just kidding, I haven't matured. It's just the mods don't let me have any fun anymore. . I miss my DL's...

[Whaleboy]

One of two things; £££, or as a symptom of some kind of issue she might have with her own father.

Failing that, there's always 'hooker syndrome' where particularly weak minded women deliberately put themselves through traumatic experiences and relationships... servicing a man for instance; enjoying the perversity of power play between themselves and a more dominant male.... the age and status thing here again, though it needn't necessarily apply only to younger women and older men.

[faded glory]

I just started a fwb relationship with a 20 year old who works in the office at the warehouse I work. I am 33 years old. We have been making rendevous in my car late at night keeping this a secret because of her mom and the no dating policy. I have no money and she has even called me a jerk on occassion. She damn near forced herself on me after discovering my myspace site (which is has fallen into disrepair).

Im going to ask her this when we get together sunday night.

Im kinda wondering.

[Provost Harrison]

Her mother has her in a no dating policy at 20? What evil control freak of a mother does she have?

[MrFun]

Originally posted by Provost Harrison

I am still very youthful in many ways, but I am mature and responsible...

The best way to be in life.

[DaShi]

Originally posted by Urban Ranger


You are confusing somebody who is immature with somebody who has a little kid inside.

Oh come on UR, guys can't get pregnant.

[Zkribbler]

Originally posted by Provost Harrison
Her mother has her in a no dating policy at 20? What evil control freak of a mother does she have?

Not really. The girl is just using that as an excuse because she doesn't want to be seen in public with someone like faded glory.

[Mrs. Tuberski]

I dont think it has been answered why young guys go for older women either. I think we have established the younger women going for the old man which is money power maybe for some its attraction i doubt the last one in cases where the guy is like 70 and the girl is 30
As far as the 20 yo gal with a mom like that what kinda crap is that? I would think if the girl wanted to date she could tell her mom to butt out. Even if the fact is that she lives in her moms house is unfathomable, if she wanted to date she would move out and get her own place.

[Grandpa Troll]

Originally posted by Mrs. Tuberski
I dont think it has been answered why young guys go for older women either.

umm..not to be crass or put it in a wrong manner, but I went for an Older woman, I was 16 she was 45

I want to say, she knew what she wanted, I thought I knew how to get there and when all said and done we both enjoyed a very long and eventful trip


Like I said, that was when I was a wee younger lass

[Zkribbler]

Grandpa Troll! You dirty young man, you!!

[Urban Ranger]

Originally posted by MrFun
No -- one can certainly be light-hearted and fun-loving while still having maturity in regards to consideration of others, respect for others, and so on.

It's all right, MrFun, we* all make mistakes.



* Except one or two who seem to walk on water.