Just out of curiosity, has anybody here ever met a twelve-year-old girl who seemed intellectually and emotionally prepared to make informed decisions like an adult? I haven't. And wanting to screw some guy who can't or won't get women his own age isn't a sign of good judgment to me.
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Originally posted by Kucinich
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Originally posted by Dr Strangelove
Wouldn't the best guide regarding the determination of the legal age of consent be the general historical experience with the outcome of sexual activity at the age groups in question? As I said above, the outcome of a 12 year old's pregnancy are generally pretty dismal, for the girl, the girl's parents, and the baby. Frankly, in my experience this is pretty much true up through the teens. When a teenaged girl has a baby almost always everyone involved suffers, so why let it happen? I'd be interested to learn what the results are in other countries, like the Netherlands. In the Netherlands what generally happens to young teens (13 to 16) who have babies in terms of finishing school, career, future income, and mental health in comparison with other girls? What happens to their babies in terms of placement, scholastic performance, trouble with the law, and etc?We the people are the rightful masters of both Congress and the courts, not to overthrow the Constitution but to overthrow the men who pervert the Constitution. - Abraham Lincoln
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In the Netherlands what generally happens to young teens (13 to 16) who have babies in terms of finishing school, career, future income, and mental health in comparison with other girls?Quod Me Nutrit Me Destruit
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Knowledge of contraceptives work wonders.(\__/) 07/07/1937 - Never forget
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Originally posted by Saint Marcus
It usually isn't for the best, indeed. But...teenage pregnancy rates in Holland are 9(!!!) times smaller (per 100,000ppl), despite having an age of concent 6 years below that of the US. You tell me, what is more effective?"I say shoot'em all and let God sort it out in the end!
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Historically hasn't the social culture of the Netherlands tended to be rather puritanical?Quod Me Nutrit Me Destruit
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Originally posted by Urban Ranger
Knowledge of contraceptives work wonders.
and all highschools that I know of hand out comdoms (some mid schools also)
knowledge is not the issue
it is dumb people like my sister who just gets pregnant again and again
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Originally posted by Dr Strangelove
Historically hasn't the social culture of the Netherlands tended to be rather puritanical?Why can't you be a non-conformist just like everybody else?
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As pointed out by Saint Marcus, even with an age of consent of 12, fewer teenagers get pregnant than the US. Hence the argument that teenage pregnancy is bad isn't an argument for a high age of consent, since it seems to have the opposite effect. There are other factors at work, of course, but to explain the whole 9 times?
Also, having an age of consent of 18 must make it harder for those under 18 who get pregnant to get help and make decisions, when it shows they've broken the law.Smile
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Originally posted by Saint Marcus
It usually isn't for the best, indeed. But...teenage pregnancy rates in Holland are 9(!!!) times smaller (per 100,000ppl), despite having an age of concent 6 years below that of the US. You tell me, what is more effective?
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If what we should do as individuals is not what the law should be, that requires some justification. Usually the law reflects and reinforces behaviour that we believe we should do.
Wouldn't the best guide regarding the determination of the legal age of consent be the general historical experience with the outcome of sexual activity at the age groups in question?"I work in IT so I'd be buggered without a computer" - Words of wisdom from Provost Harrison
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It's galls me to say this, but for once, Diss is actually correct. Our culture is very different from Europe's. We place heavy stress on individualism as opposed to community, instant gratification over long term goals, and things over relationships. Without a culture shift, we can't handle that kind of freedom. On the other hand, without freedom, we'll never have a culture shift. The problems are worst in the most culturally repressive parts of America, after all. Still, no one's going to say we should sacrifice a generation or two of kids in order to have better great-grandkids.Christianity: The belief that a cosmic Jewish Zombie who was his own father can make you live forever if you symbolically eat his flesh and telepathically tell him you accept him as your master, so he can remove an evil force from your soul that is present in humanity because a rib-woman was convinced by a talking snake to eat from a magical tree...
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Originally posted by Dr Strangelove
Wouldn't the best guide regarding the determination of the legal age of consent be the general historical experience with the outcome of sexual activity at the age groups in question?
Outcomes for a person depends much much more on education, intelligence, family support than it does age.
Originally posted by Dr Strangelove
As I said above, the outcome of a 12 year old's pregnancy are generally pretty dismal, for the girl, the girl's parents, and the baby. Frankly, in my experience this is pretty much true up through the teens. When a teenaged girl has a baby almost always everyone involved suffers, so why let it happen?
Two points.
1. The same may be true of 19 year olds that get pregnant as well. heck we could probably find that sexual contact before age 25 has more negative consequences than good. Do we say no one can consent under age 25?
2. You seem focused on pregnancy but that can happen when two 13 year olds get together. I have no statistics to back me up but I would think that the chance of pregnancy eould be higher when two 13 year olds get together ( which would not be illegal under most consent laws) than in the typical predator situation where the predator would not want a pregnancy to raise the probability of detection
Originally posted by Dr Strangelove
When a teenaged girl has a baby almost always everyone involved suffers, so why let it happen?
You are focused on outcomes for the pregnant teen but unless you go sexist and define consent laws in a unigender type of way, the law must either say that both commit a crime or no one does, when two 13 year olds get together. A law on this would be inneffective since what 13 year old boy and girl "in love" are going to care about the consequences? They don't care about ruining their lives with a pregnancy so why would they care that they get a stint in juvy?
Sorry Dr Strangelove . . . While I concurr that teen pregnancy is a huge problem, do you really think making sex illegal for teens will solve it? I don't.
Consent laws are about protecting those that are immature from those who are "old enough to know better". Thats why the only system that makes sense is one with a chosen age limit and a range of acceptable ages around the age of the victim.You don't get to 300 losses without being a pretty exceptional goaltender.-- Ben Kenobi speaking of Roberto Luongo
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Originally posted by Drogue
As pointed out by Saint Marcus, even with an age of consent of 12, fewer teenagers get pregnant than the US. Hence the argument that teenage pregnancy is bad isn't an argument for a high age of consent, since it seems to have the opposite effect. There are other factors at work, of course, but to explain the whole 9 times?
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