Translating Womanese

[Bosh]

Originally posted by Japher
You did something you shouldn't of or didn't do something that you should of. Just face the music and dance.

Well I haven't done much of anything recently besides emit laryngitic croaks, so that leave's what I haven't done...

If you love her: start saving!
If you don't love her: start running!
If you're not sure: make up your mind. fast.

That's what I worried about.
Have only known her for a bit over a month

Oh, you're ****ed buddy. Good luck.

Looks like it, will give ya an update sunday night

Oh and Seeker when do you leave Korea? Gotta buy you some goodbye Cass when you head out

[Japher]

so that leave's what I haven't done...

Is it her birthday? your aniversary? Think hard because it might be an aniversary of something stupid that means a lot to her...

[Seeker]

ALERT: I go back to Vancouver Oct 25 (Yes that's next saturday)

Bottom line: Not only are they psycho, the school is falling apart financially and physically they probably won't pay up, the school could fold at any time (everyones salary has been 'late' not just mine).

Luckily I'm still making some money from private lessons.

I had been trying to share a room in a very sweet appartment shared by other sun-sang neem, but they rented it.

I could go to another school but I'm kinda burnt out for now, I'm going to go back for a few months, I may hit Korea or another country or go back to school or whatever.

POSSIBLE MEET TIMES: 9:45 tommorrow (probably late+ short notice), anytime sunday, or next Friday also 9:45PM, I teach a lesson 8:00 to 9:00 near Garak Market (40 mins from Itaewon).

Let's pick a REALLY REALLY obvious place to meet because I'm stupid. Outback, UN bar or somewhere. Reggae Pub is good too.

[Arrian]

One month... yikes

I have to say this: if the woman really is fishing for an "I love you" from you by saying "You have something to tell me" that would piss *me* off. I'm not you, so whatever. FP's point about advice from internet geeks stands. But for goodness sakes, whatever you do, don't ever

[Japher]

Maybe she got her hair done or something... When ever they change their appearance they want your "honest" opinion

[Bosh]

Is it her birthday? your aniversary?

Its not the day.

9:45 tommorrow (probably late+ short notice), anytime sunday, or next Friday also 9:45PM, I teach a lesson 8:00 to 9:00 near Garak Market (40 mins from Itaewon).

Saturday's possible since we're getting indonesian food for dinner (sweet sweet indonesian food) and should be in the general area afterwards. My last bus home (barring crashing on ondol) is at 8:10 PM on Sunday from gangbyeon, any good idea of stuff too do on a sunday afternoon, still don't know Seoul too well?

One month... yikes

I have to say this: if the woman really is fishing for an "I love you" from you by saying "You have something to tell me" that would piss *me* off.

Ya. And one of the things I like most about her is that she's NEVER played any games with me.

[Seeker]

And she is also rather a bit of a HOTTTIE I must say....

And fun loving...

And nice personality...

Can't go wrong!

She sure loves dancing I wasn't watching last time did you guys have fun?

Or is dancing (or my weaving and staggering equivalent)something you want to cross off your 'to do' list?

[Dinner]

Originally posted by SlowwHand
Divorced twice by the same woman? I KNOW I'm right.

Didn't get enough the first time around?

[Ben Kenobi]

If you love her: start saving!
If you don't love her: start running!
If you're not sure: make up your mind. fast.

Yep. Sounds like this is the case. She's giving you a chance to tell her how much you love her, and then to tell you how much she loves you.

People who are passive aggressive operate in this fashion, it's an easy way to ask someone, do you love me, without having to ask, do you love me?

[Dinner]

Originally posted by Boshko
Oh and Seeker when do you leave Korea? Gotta buy you some goodbye Cass when you head out

Cass is good but I liked Hite better.

[Seeker]

'Hite'


EDIT: I was going to post something irresponsible about American soldiers and their taste in beer, pubs, and women but I decided not to as a gentleman.

[Urban Ranger]

Re: Translating Womanese

Originally posted by Boshko


Any ideas? I'm pretty monumentally bad at this sort of thing.

I think she sensed you had something on your mind that's bothering you. So speak up even if you thought you didn't want to burden her.

[Dinner]

Originally posted by Seeker
'Hite'


EDIT: I was going to post something irresponsible about American soldiers and their taste in beer, pubs, and women but I decided not to as a gentleman.

Cass is good too. I also developed a strange taste for soju which is odd because the stuff tastes so bad.

[Bosh]

And she is also rather a bit of a HOTTTIE I must say....

And fun loving...

And nice personality...

Can't go wrong!

She sure loves dancing I wasn't watching last time did you guys have fun?

Or is dancing (or my weaving and staggering equivalent)something you want to cross off your 'to do' list?

Exactly, couldn't have said it bettr myself I think my job would've driven me insane by now if it wasn't for her. That's why I'm trying to figure out what's up, I want this to work.

Seeker: Hmmmm, how about Helios at 10 PM Saturday? That's a good place for a few after-dinner beers.

She's giving you a chance to tell her how much you love her, and then to tell you how much she loves you.

And I'm not going to wax poetic over a crappy cellphone connection with some post-laryngitic croaking and long-week-at-work brain deadness adding to the fun. I do have my limits, and our first date was just a month ago for god's sake.

Cass is good but I liked Hite better.

You can tell the difference?

I think she sensed you had something on your mind that's bothering you.

Just my job, the schedule (and location) are a *****.


Time for to sleep now.

[Urban Ranger]

Originally posted by Boshko
Just my job, the schedule (and location) are a *****.

As I thought, something was bothering you.

Most women are very, very sensitive about these things.