Dating another "race"

[Gangerolf]

I'm white and I don't mind dating girls from other races (as long as they're hot. But, although they must exist, I've yet to see a hot aborigine. I think I've seen one or two decent looking middle eastern woman, but their mustaches grossed me out. I know it's silly but I'm also a bit worried that my kids wouldn't look anything like me if my their mum was black/yellow/brown/purple/whatever.

Other cultures I may have a problem with though. Non-western women are sometimes way too passive/submissive for my likings. I want a fun, smart and sporty partner, not a personal assistant or a birth giving machine.

[Ben Kenobi]

Ben, I've focused on real life, and so there hasn't been as much time. Still, I've managed to drop by now and again, thanks for asking pal.

Next time I see you around, I'll bump my RCIA thread.

You might be interested.

Glad to hear everything's good.

[OzzyKP]

Last fall I dated a gorgeous Black libertarian chick. Tall hottie. Problem was she was a spoiled princess type, way too expensive and high maintence for me. Plus we just didn't have any chemistry. I wish I had a pic, she was quite attractive.

Anyways, the answer is I don't care what color or ethnicity people are. It'd be nice to marry a Catholic Hungarian, but I'll find who I find. I have no fetish or preference, I'm just open to anyone.

[Imran Siddiqui]

So what's the difference between 'Definetly' and 'Couldn't Care Less..."? They seem to basically be the same to me.

And 4 people said Definetly not?!

[Lancer]

RCIA?

Rightwing Catholic Immigrants Association?

[Q Classic]

how do you feel about african men fetishists? you know the stereotypes; dark skinned, muscular, well hung. any worse / less worse than asian fetishists?

sm (er, maybe i shouldn't abbreviate like that...), fetishists in general offend me. but see, the difference between african men fetishists and asian women fetishists is that one of the strikes much closer to home than the other. i'm not black. i am asian. so the african fetishists don't affect me in as direct of a manner as asian fetishists.
hell, that could be my cousin that they're abusing. that's a lot closer to home than someone objectifying my friend.
and finally, i personally think that it's quite a bit worse. sure, the african stereotype is nasty and disgusting, and plays into exoticism. but very rarely does it involve anything remotely close to emotional domination that so often accompanies these asian fetishists' relationships.

Che, exactly. Alot of white guys give up on white women. Society, through stuff like the soaps, teach them if they want a thrill, cheat. Also, that love can be evidenced by the price of a diamond or the size of a new car. Since after they get the car and the diamond, they still want a thrill... Anyway, it sickens me. Thank God I'm free of it. My wife is a friend and companion, as well as the love of my life. I'm so glad that the 'war of the sexes' is behind me. Contentious relationships suck. So, yes, so many have given up, many more will.

huh. well, guess it goes to show that it only affects those who watch those soaps. i still know plenty of white women who don't find any thrills in infidelity...
lancer, guess it just works out that we're keeping the rates equal. you're dating an asian girl, i'm dating a white girl.

[Dinner]

The most down to Earth and least materialist woman I have ever dated was a white chick. I'm not saying all white chicks are like that or not like that but the idea that all white girls are materialists is just plain false. In fact I would say they are no worse or better about materialism or cheating then any other ethnicity.

BTW those of you who think white girls are more slutty then other girls should try dating a good church girl (and there are LOTS of them out there). Talk about a tough nut to crack.

[duke o' york]

Yeah, but sometimes a repressed exterior hides all kinds of unseen fun.

[Dinner]

Yeah it would be fun but I'm not sure I want a Catholic school girl who's trying to make up for 20 years of repression in one night.

[The Viceroy]

My wife is Indian from Bombay, im English from Chester .. Ive never had any problems with race or religion .. our daughter speaks both English and Hindi and even Spanish (blame that damn dora the explorer) ..

I just think the world is full of people, all completely different in there own way .. The place they come from owes more to the culture and uniqueness of that individual than the genetic heritage ..

Im English .. or am I Viking ? or Saxon, or celt ?? Maybe there's Roman gene's there, Middle Eastern, African .. ?? If we all trace our genetic backgrounds back, we will find we all are mongrals of one kind or another, so the idea of a "Race" of people to me is just invalid.

We are all our own race .. mate with somebody, you create somebody unique.

[Dinner]

To be fair populations which are isolated from from other populations tend to have their own distinct look.

[Q Classic]

If we all trace our genetic backgrounds back, we will find we all are mongrals of one kind or another,

and yet, people take pride in being pure-blooded mongrels.

[duke o' york]

No-one's isolated any more. Even "indians" from the Brazilian rain forests come out and travel to cities to work, maybe returning later in life. There is no such thing as a totally self-contained existence any more. They even let Texans out - just as long as they join the army.

Obviously, if tribes exist that have not made contact with anyone then how are we going to know, and how are you going to fall in love with one of their people? Some cultures may still be distinct, but things are becoming more and more homogenised.

[Dinner]

Originally posted by duke o' york
No-one's isolated any more. Even "indians" from the Brazilian rain forests come out and travel to cities to work, maybe returning later in life. There is no such thing as a totally self-contained existence any more. They even let Texans out - just as long as they join the army.

No one is claiming that any national group lives in a hermetically sealed container but as long as the incoming genes are minor compared to the reporduction of existing genes then the population's genetic make up will remain largely unchanged. BTW Existing genetic subgroups are breaking down faster then ever before but they still exist.

I'm not an expert at east Asian genetics but even I can see a remakable difference between the look of say a Korean and a Chinese or even a Japanese. In indo-Chinese groups the differences are even more remarkable. There is far more variation between Asian groups then there is between European groups.

As a result of that individual nationalities have a very distinct national look.

[Bosh]

but even I can see a remakable difference between the look of say a Korean and a Chinese or even a Japanese

A lot of that has to do with different clothing, hair etc. etc. styles. It seems that culture even impacts facial expressions a good bit. But there are some differences, Koreans tend to be taller for example...