JohnT:
You say that you had been attending Mass more recently? Perhaps God is reaching out towards you, using Sophie's entrie in your life to give you an opportunity to get closer to him?
I know I am not the best Catholic either, and it disturbs me greatly how I often find myself the ambassador of Catholicism to this forum. However, you and I are both adults, we know to a much greater extent what we do and we know that we will be accountable to God for our own actions. Sophie, obviously is not the same way, she needs your help, and you are responsible for her and her upbringing. And while you can be accountable for your own actions, you should want Sophie not to be spiritually harmed by being denied a religious upbringing. Yes, I know some people do come to religion even if not brought up that way, but more often then not I seem to notice people brought up without religion tend to have inertia set in and stay that way.
In short, even if you are not the best spiritually, you should still to try to provide her upbringing spiritually the best you can just as I sure you will in every aspect of her life. As for the teaching of the Church, take it or leave it, you will be accountable to God for whatever disadvantages you impart.
I am horribly sorry, I know I am not the best persuador, but I am doing the best I can in gving you an answer. I humbly apologize for any failings in my post and I wish the best for you and your family. I do urge you though- don't rely on mostly secularists in making this crucial decision. Whether from your Church or from the forum I mentioned or from whoever, I strongly encourage you to seek more Catholic input into your decision.
You say that you had been attending Mass more recently? Perhaps God is reaching out towards you, using Sophie's entrie in your life to give you an opportunity to get closer to him?
I know I am not the best Catholic either, and it disturbs me greatly how I often find myself the ambassador of Catholicism to this forum. However, you and I are both adults, we know to a much greater extent what we do and we know that we will be accountable to God for our own actions. Sophie, obviously is not the same way, she needs your help, and you are responsible for her and her upbringing. And while you can be accountable for your own actions, you should want Sophie not to be spiritually harmed by being denied a religious upbringing. Yes, I know some people do come to religion even if not brought up that way, but more often then not I seem to notice people brought up without religion tend to have inertia set in and stay that way.
In short, even if you are not the best spiritually, you should still to try to provide her upbringing spiritually the best you can just as I sure you will in every aspect of her life. As for the teaching of the Church, take it or leave it, you will be accountable to God for whatever disadvantages you impart.
I am horribly sorry, I know I am not the best persuador, but I am doing the best I can in gving you an answer. I humbly apologize for any failings in my post and I wish the best for you and your family. I do urge you though- don't rely on mostly secularists in making this crucial decision. Whether from your Church or from the forum I mentioned or from whoever, I strongly encourage you to seek more Catholic input into your decision.
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