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And following her home and watching her undress through the window. That's a riskier approach.
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“As a lifelong member of the Columbia Business School community, I adhere to the principles of truth, integrity, and respect. I will not lie, cheat, steal, or tolerate those who do.”
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Seriously, if you see her there often and need to know her better, just make small talk each time you go until you feel comfortable enough to ask her out. She'll probably feel more comfortable too. Basically, flirting can just be small talk.“As a lifelong member of the Columbia Business School community, I adhere to the principles of truth, integrity, and respect. I will not lie, cheat, steal, or tolerate those who do.”
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I've read her calling card, so I could send a private detective after her to find out what she does after working hours.DISCLAIMER: the author of the above written texts does not warrant or assume any legal liability or responsibility for any offence and insult; disrespect, arrogance and related forms of demeaning behaviour; discrimination based on race, gender, age, income class, body mass, living area, political voting-record, football fan-ship and musical preference; insensitivity towards material, emotional or spiritual distress; and attempted emotional or financial black-mailing, skirt-chasing or death-threats perceived by the reader of the said written texts.Comment
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I'm not much of a small talk person and it's hard to come up with a subject in that environment. I don't visit the supermarket very regularly either.Originally posted by DaShi
Seriously, if you see her there often and need to know her better, just make small talk each time you go until you feel comfortable enough to ask her out. She'll probably feel more comfortable too. Basically, flirting can just be small talk.
We've made some eye contact, so I'm inclined to ask her for a drink after work flat out.DISCLAIMER: the author of the above written texts does not warrant or assume any legal liability or responsibility for any offence and insult; disrespect, arrogance and related forms of demeaning behaviour; discrimination based on race, gender, age, income class, body mass, living area, political voting-record, football fan-ship and musical preference; insensitivity towards material, emotional or spiritual distress; and attempted emotional or financial black-mailing, skirt-chasing or death-threats perceived by the reader of the said written texts.Comment
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Actually, having thought of this thread while perusing credit details of many major UK and US companies today
, I came to the conclusion that men do not and should not flirt. Women flirt. Men react..
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(Speaking from experience) With girls like that (waitress, cashier, etc.), you won't have time to get to know them from chitchat, they way you might with a classmate or coworker. So just ask them out directly. It becomes much more of a go/non-go. Less worryingabout how to aks them, less investment in strategy, etc. Just ask them out directly. I'd advise something reasonably neutral (not a vastly expensive date) so that neigher of you feels too much pressure, since you don't know if you'll even get along that well.Originally posted by Colon
Anybody have any strategies for this: cute girl working as a cashier at a supermarket in my neighbourhood. I prefer to ask someone out after I got the chance to get to know her a bit but there isn't much of an opportunity to have chat. (obviously) but I've never seen her outside of her workplace either. How do I handle this?Comment
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That's one approach, but I would just do it directly. who cares if there are other people around. Just get the yes or no. you can make arrangements to talk later for logistical details if she doesn't have much time to talk because of customer demands.Originally posted by Colon
Genius!
But how about waiting at the entrance until her working day is over?Comment
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This is the way to go. For all you know, she has a boyfriend and won't go out. (But still smiles with male customers). better to just ask and get the info. I think it always takes some guts to ask someone out, so you can feel good about yourself just for asking even if the answer is no. And human nature being what it is, there is a 50/50 chance she says yes.Originally posted by Colon
I'm not much of a small talk person and it's hard to come up with a subject in that environment. I don't visit the supermarket very regularly either.
We've made some eye contact, so I'm inclined to ask her for a drink after work flat out.Comment
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I knew you'd drop by!Originally posted by GP
(Speaking from experience) With girls like that (waitress, cashier, etc.), you won't have time to get to know them from chitchat, they way you might with a classmate or coworker. So just ask them out directly. It becomes much more of a go/non-go. Less worryingabout how to aks them, less investment in strategy, etc. Just ask them out directly. I'd advise something reasonably neutral (not a vastly expensive date) so that neigher of you feels too much pressure, since you don't know if you'll even get along that well.
Guess I'll just do that then. Plenty of cosy bars and restos in the neighbourhood so it shouldn't be too hard to arrange something after working hours. (if she wants to)
Lemme take a look at the fridge if there's anything I need to buy tomorrow.DISCLAIMER: the author of the above written texts does not warrant or assume any legal liability or responsibility for any offence and insult; disrespect, arrogance and related forms of demeaning behaviour; discrimination based on race, gender, age, income class, body mass, living area, political voting-record, football fan-ship and musical preference; insensitivity towards material, emotional or spiritual distress; and attempted emotional or financial black-mailing, skirt-chasing or death-threats perceived by the reader of the said written texts.Comment
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We've also had eye contact when I was in another queue than at her cash register, which gives me a good feeling about this. Besides, cashiers don't smile in Belgium.Originally posted by GP
This is the way to go. For all you know, she has a boyfriend and won't go out. (But still smiles with male customers). better to just ask and get the info. I think it always takes some guts to ask someone out, so you can feel good about yourself just for asking even if the answer is no. And human nature being what it is, there is a 50/50 chance she says yes.DISCLAIMER: the author of the above written texts does not warrant or assume any legal liability or responsibility for any offence and insult; disrespect, arrogance and related forms of demeaning behaviour; discrimination based on race, gender, age, income class, body mass, living area, political voting-record, football fan-ship and musical preference; insensitivity towards material, emotional or spiritual distress; and attempted emotional or financial black-mailing, skirt-chasing or death-threats perceived by the reader of the said written texts.Comment
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Eye contact?
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Good luck, young duck.Comment
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Remember... the worst she can say is no...
When I asked my wife to be for the "first date"... she said no... but quickly followed up with "I'm busy that evening, can we make it Thursday instead"
Good luck... GO for IT !Keep on Civin'
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they laugh in english so that everyone can understand itHold my girlfriend while I kiss your skis.Comment
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Besides, cashiers don't smile in Belgium.
Morose freaks!I came upon a barroom full of bad Salon pictures in which men with hats on the backs of their heads were wolfing food from a counter. It was the institution of the "free lunch" I had struck. You paid for a drink and got as much as you wanted to eat. For something less than a rupee a day a man can feed himself sumptuously in San Francisco, even though he be a bankrupt. Remember this if ever you are stranded in these parts. ~ Rudyard Kipling, 1891Comment
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